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I don't expect it to last forever but, in reality, I'm probably as fit as I ever was. I can't quite run as fast, but I'm much stronger and I do look better as I was rather thin when younger. I don't work out as I do to get better results; I do it to get results in as short a time frame as possible. I have 3 young kids. I don't have time for 1.5 hour workouts 5 days a week. I'm not looking for gains; I just want to keep what I have and what I'm doing is working pretty good right now. I see guys in their 30's who can't do this activity or that activity because they haven't kept their body moving over the years. I'm aging, but I'm aging actively.
I think that you are supposed to hit the peak of your ability to build strength at 40.
This just makes me glad I'm not, nor have I been, a part of the "community." I find it as depressing, vacuous, and counterproductive as I ever did find it comforting. The pressure to "fit in" or conform there is often even more intense than in straight settings. It's a shame, really... so many boys spend their early lives trying to get away from feeling pressured, oppressed, or "different" only to be brought into a setting that is just as negative, only that the pressure is coming from people like them.
This just makes me glad I'm not, nor have I been, a part of the "community." I find it as depressing, vacuous, and counterproductive as I ever did find it comforting. The pressure to "fit in" or conform there is often even more intense than in straight settings. It's a shame, really... so many boys spend their early lives trying to get away from feeling pressured, oppressed, or "different" only to be brought into a setting that is just as negative, only that the pressure is coming from people like them.
Sounds like SF.