Why do I lose sexual interest in my GF's

[MetroStyles]

Originally Posted by grimslade

Actually, I came up with a theory this weekend. Here it is. What you are discovering is that the chase itself really isn't all that it's cracked up to be, because the prize isn't worth the effort. That makes you ripe for actually settling down, if you can come around to understanding what you really want in a relationship.

+100

 

[JayJay]

Originally Posted by MetroStyles

+100
+ another 100.

 

[JesseJB]

I watched High Fidelity yesterday and it told me everything I needed to know about this.

 

[X-It]

Originally Posted by Augusto86

You continue to surprise with every post, Mr. Morel

Yes. He does surprise me too.

Originally Posted by edmorel

When I stop surprising, I stop posting.

When you stop posting, you stop surprising us, Ed.

Originally Posted by VINSON

It's suprising that you're so real rather than the typical internet goodies/badasses.
Agree completely.

Told ya. Quality Seller!

 

[X-It]

Originally Posted by grimslade

Actually, I came up with a theory this weekend. Here it is. What you are discovering is that the chase itself really isn't all that it's cracked up to be, because the prize isn't worth the effort. That makes you ripe for actually settling down, if you can come around to understanding what you really want in a relationship.

Nice, grimslade.

(I have Duvel).

 

[Darklord]

For what it's worth, I'm exactly the same. I always lose interest in *********** girlfriends after a few times. I'm only really sexually excited by the idea of seducing and sleeping with someone new. I like meeting people for the first time, rather than long-term relationships. It's a big issue for me. I don't think I will ever want to marry a girl; the thought of living with a woman makes me sick... as I know I'll always want to be free to do what I want (meet new women and never be tied to only one). I'm in a relationship with a great girl right now, who has become my best friend but she complains we don't ******** much anymore and to be honest, I really only see her because I have to and not because I want to. I'd rather be out meeting new girls.

I know that's no help... I don't believe there is a solution. I'll probably just split up with my girlfriend eventually and try to stay single but sometimes it's not easy avoiding relationships.

 

[jgold47]

haha - you bumped this from like 7 years ago. I met my wife 2 months after this. been married for going on 5 years with a kid. turns out you can find the right person, and it turns out when you're with the right person, and at the right stage for it, you can still have great sex even after being married. after the kid on the other hand..... but I digress.... TL;DR its all about it being the right time in your life.

 

[Medwed]

Marrying woman for sex is marsupialed, just like it is marsupialed to think that your sexlife in marriage will stay "hot"... Denial is a bliss. Marriage is an arrangement, mostly for emotional and financial reasons , always have been and always will be. If you want to have exciting sex life and personal freedom marriage is certainly not the answer. Marriage, kids, taxes, office job, 4th of July barbeques & Christmas shopping is something people do because their lazy brains cannot imagine any Other life.