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Who here has had an affair with a married woman?

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by rexthedestroyer, Aug 2, 2010.

  1. Reggs

    Reggs Senior member

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    Hey guys!

    Let me ask you your thoughts on this, then reject every single one of them.
     
  2. chasingred

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    Hey guys! Let me ask you your thoughts on this, then rejects every single one of them.
    ya, I'm not sure what the point of this thread is either. I guess he just wanted to brag that some woman is willing to open them for him. OK dude. Yay you. It's like, he started out under the guise of 'what can I expect' and then seemed surprised that the community here was not cheering like 'yeah bro, nail that shit' for him. So, OP, here you go...if it makes you feel better..."Yeah bro! Nail that shit! Write my name on your cock, and give her one from me too!" Not sure I really buy that, but hey, if it makes you feel better....fwiw, I am far from a man with a clear conscience on certain things (although I have never knowingly slept with a married woman) but I in no position to be playing moral police...I've done some fucked up shit, and acknowledge it was fucked up. But dude, you hung it out there, asking for some kind of validation to do something obviously fucked up, and seem to have gotten a little pissy that when hung out there, people aren't rooting for you. Hell, even in kwilk's date thread he took some heat for being The Other Man, and that girl is far from married, so you can't expect the world to cheer you on when you are asking it for some kind of blessing to do something that is obviously wrong.
     
  4. Nantucket Red

    Nantucket Red Senior member

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    Matt, we all know how much you love this ask-advice-and-then-ignore-it routine.

    and I hope you reconsider about not posting an update... curious to know how this will end up.

    +1

    We all love a good dose of schadenfreude!
     
  5. Matt

    Matt Senior member

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    I don't even think he wanted advice, I think he just wanted bragging rights and then was surprised at the blowback.
     
  6. Nantucket Red

    Nantucket Red Senior member

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    I don't even think he wanted advice, I think he just wanted bragging rights and then was surprised at the blowback.

    Yeah. He also seems to think it would be free of consequences. He may be very, very wrong about that.
     
  7. Douglas

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    Hm, caution is advised here.

    East Indian women, particularly Bengalis, are known to have very overdeveloped clitores that often can resemble small penises. It is a little-known fact, but it explains why there are so few cross-cultural marriages within this community. East Indian men are familiar with this anatomy but outsiders, westerners in particular (with their narrow-minded sexual mores), typically have a problem with it.

    As an interesting aside, this explains the low incidence of homosexuality in the East Indian community, as most men fail to see the reasons for "going gay" when a properly-endowed woman is able to satisfy a multitude of desires.

    This clitoral phenomenon may also explain several other observations. An abundance of testosterone drives competitiveness, and some biologists have also posited a link between testosterone and rational thought patterns. Hence, this may explain the overrepresentation of Indian women in traditionally male-dominated professions such as the sciences, and finance. Of course, as you might expect, most Indian women are also quite hirsute. Unusual body odors are also reported, but that may just be the food.

    Ultimately, this may not end as you had expected. The husband, far from being a cuckolded fool, may simply be looking to offshore some of the anal pounding.

    JAI HO
     
  8. lee_44106

    lee_44106 Senior member

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    I'm pretty surprised at the general consensus of the forum after 4 pages.

    I'd have thought most of you are perverted degenerates, but that has not been the case. [​IMG]
     
  9. mintyfresh

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    . Atleast with me, she can be assured that I am a good guy....

    what?
     
  10. christinedaae

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    honestly, if you want to do it, do it. if you think it's wrong, dont' do it. don't look to some random people in the internet to tell you how to live your life


    moreso than that, everyone has different morals and standards. do what you want to do, and more so than that, don't go around looking for approval or disapproval form other people, regardless of what you do.


    I slept with a married woman before.two actually. one was an honest accident. the other i knew good and damn well what i was doing. Not only did she have kids, she brought them over my house one day and let them play my playstation while blowing me in the bathroom.

    not something i just go out and do but sometimes life happens. and you know what.. i really don't give a shit either way what anyone else thinks.

    to each his own
     
  11. impolyt_one

    impolyt_one Senior member

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    I've fucked a married woman before. About 2 years. Anything you need to know probably has an obvious answer... but the American middle class loves the idea of fidelity, because when somebody trips up, it's payday, but I feel like the rest of the world could live with it. Takes two to tango, anyway.

    I can't say that looking somebody in the face after you've worn out their wife a few times is a good feeling, but if you can live with yourself, well, what is stopping you I guess, right? Innocence is not a good trait to keep when you're in middle age.
     
  12. edmorel

    edmorel Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    The husband, far from being a cuckolded fool, may simply be looking to offshore some of the anal pounding.


    this probably clinched it for him, he's clearing up his friday night and saturday morning schedule.

    BTW, if divorce rates in the US are about 50%, I would say that infidelity rates are probably around 75%.
     
  13. christinedaae

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    I've fucked a married woman before. About 2 years. Anything you need to know probably has an obvious answer... but the American middle class loves the idea of fidelity, because when somebody trips up, it's payday, but I feel like the rest of the world could live with it. Takes two to tango, anyway.

    I can't say that looking somebody in the face after you've worn out their wife a few times is a good feeling, but if you can live with yourself, well, what is stopping you I guess, right? Innocence is not a good trait to keep when you're in middle age.


    true story.

    i'm going ot tell you how fucked in the head this married woman i was messing with was.

    I was not dating anyone really, but i was dating people if that made sense. wasn't committed to anyone and they all knew it. about 4 women.

    anyway, there was one i kinda liked more than any of the others, and i eventually stopped seeing other woman and we dated for a year or so. the married woman got the bright idea to go on a double date with the girl i really liked and her husband. she told her husband she "met this great guy at work that shew ould love for me to meet" (lol).

    so here i am sitting at a resturant, next to two women, and i'm fucking both of them at the table. the woman's husband sitting right across from me and i'm thinking the whole time "dude don't kiss her don't kiss her gawd.. man"

    to make matters worse she got so jealous looking at the girl i brought (who was smokin) she told her husband she was going to go out with some friends, and spent the night over my house that night.

    some women are jsut plain scandlous.



    i had another situation, not too long ago actually a girl i had chansed forever, popped back up, and was married. we went on a (real this time) double date and she made it known she would like to see me.. like that. i just couldn't do it. i have funny morals. can't explain it. that would not have been right, where as i had no qualms about the situtation above. one of the best lays i have ever had in my life.
     
  14. spertia

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    i'm fucking both of them at the table.

    Before or after the desserts arrived?

    [​IMG]
     
  15. impolyt_one

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    Well, to note, I was 17 at the time as well, No fucking clue in my head, about anything really. Nowadays I live a life where I get to separate myself from a lot of people and only socialize with a limited number of people. If I was single again there's probably a high chance that I'd end up in bed with a married woman and may not even realize it, because I like to go out and drink hard and prefer women to come to me, to ease some sort of looming guilt issues about chasing panties I have i guess. Perhaps that is related to the first part of the story.
     
  16. downwithianbrown

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    I think that people in countries besides the US would have a different opinion on this, but personally I would pass. The prospect of easy sex with a willing partner (as well as the obvious turn on of stealing another mans woman etc etc) are great, but in the end, it could lead to waaaaay more hassle than it's worth.

    You can go fuck any one, why go with the one where you might end up dealing with a sobbing husband or a very inconvenient pregnancy or excessive phonecalls/communication with a woman you just wanted to fuck but now have to listen to complain about crap. stay distant. don't get involved. Find another chick to fuck and afterward think about how stress free your life is without a desperate married bitch hounding you.
     
  17. FLMountainMan

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    Have had quite a few opportunities and did nail a separated woman. Was actually inside of another woman when she mentioned her husband's apparently miniscule endowment - she said it in such a bitter way I actually managed to stop the whole thing. Too weird.
    I can't imagine being the guy that causes Mommy & Daddy to break up.
     
  18. Piobaire

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    No kids. I wouldn't mess with a married woman with kids. I actually had that opportunity a few months ago, but totally ran away from that.

    So in the span of three months, you've had two married women toss themselves at you?
     
  19. why

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    anyway, there was one i kinda liked more than any of the others, and i eventually stopped seeing other woman and we dated for a year or so. the married woman got the bright idea to go on a double date with the girl i really liked and her husband. she told her husband she "met this great guy at work that shew ould love for me to meet" (lol).
    so here i am sitting at a resturant, next to two women, and i'm fucking both of them at the table. the woman's husband sitting right across from me and i'm thinking the whole time "dude don't kiss her don't kiss her gawd.. man"

    some women are jsut plain scandlous.


    I'm trying to figure out what this means but I just can't.
     
  20. itsstillmatt

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    I'm trying to figure out what this means but I just can't.
    she met this great guy at work that she would love for me to meet. Thank me later. FWIW, I can't understand it in context, or any of the rest of the post.
     

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