Who here has had an affair with a married woman?

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  1. rexthedestroyer

    rexthedestroyer Senior member

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    I just realized that there are a lot of married guys on this board. Probably a bad place to post this, lol.

    However, I am sure others have been in my situation. No one cares to share their experience?
     


  2. nahneun

    nahneun Uncle Nephew

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    I just realized that there are a lot of married guys on this board. Probably a bad place to post this, lol. However, I am sure others have been in my situation. No one cares to share their experience?
    At this point, you're just ignoring everyone's advice and looking to justify your own desires. It doesn't matter if the husband is a scrawny fuck and you are some beefy ex-soldier. Just don't do it. Get your own woman.
     


  3. Sherman90

    Sherman90 Senior member

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    I just realized that there are a lot of married guys on this board. Probably a bad place to post this, lol. However, I am sure others have been in my situation. No one cares to share their experience?
    How old are you, Rex? P.S. There are probably just as many single guys as married guys on this board. I'm not married.
     


  4. GQgeek

    GQgeek Senior member

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    You should read anna karenina and then decide what to do.
     


  5. philosophe

    philosophe Senior member

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    Infidelity is a nasty business. Stay away.
     


  6. texas_jack

    texas_jack Senior member

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    I'm not married either.
     


  7. fwiffo

    fwiffo Senior member

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    I'm not married. I've never done it either, but there are quite a few unhappy married women in my life. Believe me, even getting the reputation as a cad or "mommy stealer" is a bad enough hole to fall into. This usually occurs when you're a confidant of the opposite sex to these women who got married too early or married for the wrong reasons or whatever.

    Steam your clothes, shine your shoes and call an escort - you'll still come out better time & money wise in the end, and avoid soap opera levels of hassle.
     


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    ama Senior member

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    This dilemma threak is not nearly as good as Saltricks. [​IMG]
     


  9. hendrix

    hendrix Ill-proportioned

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    Like I said, I'm not pursuing this at all; I'm just reacting to it.

    In terms of ruining her marriage, she already has it in her head to cheat on her husband, if not my friend then me. If not me, then god know who. Atleast with me, she can be assured that I am a good guy, will not have an emotional attachment, won't blab to the husband and don't have any diseases.


    that's a poor attempt at justification. You want to do it because you're horny, and it doesn't matter that you know it's wrong.


    She is doing quite well financiall. She is in the finance field and is earning a great income. In fact, she is pursuing a promotion. I'd be more worried for the husband and his start up without her supporting him. As far as him doing something to me directly or indirectly, I really do not forsee this. I just can't see it happening. To be honest, if I was married and my wife cheated on me, I'd just walk away. No point getting angry over a woman who doesn't love you and so disrespectful that she would cheat on you.

    Sad to say, but the wife has already let my buddy "do stuff" to her, so at this point she just wants to be passed around.


    wtf and you're interested in this chick? you have no taste man.


    also i hate the "let him do stuff". A girl doesn't "let" you do anything. It's not some big favour she does in exchange for something else.
     


  10. BubblyMasquerade

    BubblyMasquerade Senior member

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    i'm not married.

    you're a piece of turd.

    and i'm not angry, this is the internets bro.
     


  11. Dakota rube

    Dakota rube Senior member

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    wtf?
     


  12. rexthedestroyer

    rexthedestroyer Senior member

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    wtf?

    That was weird to me as well. Oh well.
     


  13. rexthedestroyer

    rexthedestroyer Senior member

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    that's a poor attempt at justification. You want to do it because you're horny, and it doesn't matter that you know it's wrong.




    wtf and you're interested in this chick? you have no taste man.


    also i hate the "let him do stuff". A girl doesn't "let" you do anything. It's not some big favour she does in exchange for something else.



    I'm not looking to date this woman, so it is not about taste. What is funny is that when I was in the military, wher adultary is a crime under the UCMJ, I saw it happen all the time. Anyone who has spent some time in Camp Lejeune, or any military town for that matter knows that this stuff goes on all the time. Not trying to justify this, but just putting it in perspective.
     


  14. vinouspleasure

    vinouspleasure Senior member

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    That was weird to me as well. Oh well.
    let me try to explain it to you. The rationalization "I may was well as do x, even though I know it's wrong but hey, somebody else is going to do it anyway" works for for a lot of applications, including genocide.
     


  15. CTGuy

    CTGuy Made Guy

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    I just realized that there are a lot of married guys on this board. Probably a bad place to post this, lol. However, I am sure others have been in my situation. No one cares to share their experience?
    Not married. Bad idea. I know a couple guys who have been in a the exact same situation. It never ends well. Generally it's a disaster. If you just want a lay, I am not sure why you can't look elsewhere... are you that desperate? You seem to be looking for people to justify the decision you've already made to bang her.
     


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