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Who do you absolutely trust?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by CouttsClient, Jun 27, 2011.

  1. nootje

    nootje Senior member

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    In a theme like pio's, I trust my mother, but will never again my father. Anybody who can delude himself to the point that the decision he wants to make is in your best interest cannot be counted upon. To complete the list, maybe the gf.
     


  2. ImaPro

    ImaPro Senior member

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    About anything a friend who I've know since elementary. Other than that maybe my parents and some other friends.
     


  3. Gordon Gekko

    Gordon Gekko Senior member

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    My fiance'. She's had many opportunities to do me wrong, but never did it. While I can't say the same for anyone else, not even my family.
     


  4. Elusive

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    Nobody nut I have a lot of experience
     


  5. ysc

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    Family, an ex-girlfriend, possibly the current girlfriend and I have a couple of friends who I know would help me dispose of the bodies regardless of the circumstances.
     


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    globetrotter Senior member

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    my wife, and maybe 4 old friends who I trust completly. my brother. not my sister or my parents, not my new friends.

    part of being an infantryman is putting your literal life in other people's hands, including people you might not know. the level of trust in people has to be extremly high. I have had many people trust me with their literal lives, and I have, in the past, trusted many people with my literal life.
     


  7. cross22

    cross22 Senior member

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    Nobody, most people would betray you for the right amount of money, I would betray most for the right pussy.
     


  8. Deluks917

    Deluks917 Senior member

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    Only my twin sister.
     


  9. guest

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    my mom, dad, brother, grandparents. couple of friends. i'm not a trusting fellow really.
     


  10. ZhiMingBuFanDe

    ZhiMingBuFanDe Senior member

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    My dad, my godfather, and probably two friends.
     


  11. Thomas

    Thomas Senior member

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    not sure what "absolutely trust" means though in all seriousness. i put a lot of trust in several people - my fiancee, my mom, my dad, my uncle, my brother. but i mean that's not to say i couldn't make up a ridiculous example wherein they might make some choice that was less than optimal. but none of these people would really intentionally screw me for their own purposes, if that's the question. there may be a few other friends too i really trust to do the right thing; e.g. someone close enough that i would name them executor of my estate for example. hell, there's even a chance that someday the fiancee could cheat on me... but that still doesn't mean i monitor her whereabouts when she leaves the house.

    in other words, the question needs clarification.


    Interesting answer and it kind of goes along with my thoughts in that there are people I would trust in specific situations or purposes, but not really across-the-board. For instance: I trust my parents in many things, but I also know their failings - and I don't think they'd intentionally betray a confidence, but I think they might let something slip. I trust my wife with many things, but she's bad with money. Do I think she'd intentionally bankrupt us? Nope, but I do think her carelessness could get the best of her and, by extension, us.

    So, do I trust their intentions? Sure. Do I trust their actions? Ehm, most of the time, but not always.
     


  12. in stitches

    in stitches Kung Joo Moderator

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    Interesting answer and it kind of goes along with my thoughts in that there are people I would trust in specific situations or purposes, but not really across-the-board. For instance: I trust my parents in many things, but I also know their failings - and I don't think they'd intentionally betray a confidence, but I think they might let something slip. I trust my wife with many things, but she's bad with money. Do I think she'd intentionally bankrupt us? Nope, but I do think her carelessness could get the best of her and, by extension, us.

    So, do I trust their intentions? Sure. Do I trust their actions? Ehm, most of the time, but not always.


    you do both make excellent points. and while there are things i wouldnt want my parents to know, and there are maybe one or two areas where my wife isnt stellar. nonetheless i trust them without exception. if i told them something in confidence i am sure they would honor it. if i needed them in a pinch they would be there. the fact that i know my wife cant keep the car clean for the life of her doesnt really detract from the trust i have in her in the greater sense.

    the better question is does anybody in the universe absolutely trust me?
     


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    My father. We each have power of attorney for the other.
     


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    Absolutely trust?

    No one including myself.
     


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    Is there someone you've come to trust completely? What sealed it and made you believe you could trust them?
    When my father gave me power of attorney, I stood go gain far more than might he.

    I might add that my father shoots straight with me even when it is not to his advantage ... even if it might seriously disadvantage him. That builds trust.
     


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