What are your interests? Cooking? Particular type of literature? Tango? Waltz? Salsa? Why not take a class in any of the above? You could always crash a wedding.... A I started taking ballroom dance lessons about twelve years ago. Met some nice women doing that. Spent the last eleven years with one of them. Tango is great, by the way, because you actually start by embracing the woman. Salsa is another dance that a lot of people like (it doesn't work for me, though). Also, if you go dancing, even if you don't manage to "pick up" the girl you like, you can still have a lot of fun just dancing with her. Now, of course, not everybody enjoys dancing. However, you do not really know until you have tried it. I was surprised by how much I enjoyed it, and I always regret not having learnt to dance earlier.