When should a man get married?

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  1. kaxixi

    kaxixi Senior member

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    I don't need help choosing a wife. And I don't currently have a potential wife. (See OP.) Edit: Here's the question... When should a dude start dating with the intention of getting hitched as opposed to getting laid?
     
  2. Unbreakable

    Unbreakable Senior member

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    A man should get married when he hits the point where he is driven to marriage by a desire to spend the rest of his life with a particular woman. That is, he decides to get married because he wants to be married, and this is the woman to whom he wants to make that commitment. When that happens, get married. Getting married prior to this happening means he was pushed into the biggest commitment of his life for reasons that are not his own, and that doesn't bode well for success.

    I think for some guys the above never happens, and there's nothing wrong with that.



    Well said sir. [​IMG]

    I dated my highschool sweetheart for a total of 4-4.5 years before I popped the question. We were married for a a total of 1.5ish before she cheated and we got divorced.

    Point is, if you feel that you and this person were made for each other and both feel the same way, get married. They offer divorces for a reason
    (PS: prenup)
     
  3. Mr. Moo

    Mr. Moo Boxercise Toughguy

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  4. redcaimen

    redcaimen Bigtime

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    I don't need help choosing a wife. And I don't currently have a potential wife. (See OP.)

    Edit: Here's the question... When should a dude start dating with the intention of getting hitched as opposed to getting laid?


    This may sound like crazy talk but how about when he fuckin' wants to start dating with the intention of getting hitched as opposed to getting laid.
     
  5. Teacher

    Teacher Senior member

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    This may sound like crazy talk but how about when he fuckin' wants to start dating with the intention of getting hitched as opposed to getting laid.

    Dude, that's just crazy talk.
     
  6. Roikins

    Roikins Senior member

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    I don't need help choosing a wife. And I don't currently have a potential wife. (See OP.)

    Edit: Here's the question... When should a dude start dating with the intention of getting hitched as opposed to getting laid?


    When you're done having fun being single and doing/seeing the things you want to do.
     
  7. ama

    ama Senior member

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    Once one realizes that meaningless sex is lonely.
     
  8. Dedalus

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    Edit: Here's the question... When should a dude start dating with the intention of getting hitched as opposed to getting laid?
    A man is always dating to get laid. It just so happens that he sometimes finds someone he'd like to spend the rest of his life with. Then he gets married.
     
  9. Piobaire

    Piobaire Not left of center?

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    A man is always dating to get laid. It just so happens that he sometimes finds someone he'd like to spend the rest of his life with. Then he gets married.

    /threak
     
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    globetrotter Senior member

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    30.

    for me it was a simple switch, one day all I cared about was getting laid, the next it was all about getting married. I am very happy with the timing, too.
     
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    Milhouse Senior member

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    When her father has a shotgun.
     
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    eg1 Senior member

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    When all other alternatives have been exhausted.
     
  13. Unbreakable

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    Once one realizes that meaningless sex is lonely.

    We seem to not be having the same type of meaningless sex my friend [​IMG]
     
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    29 years, 3 months, 17 days, 4 hours, 3 minutes, and 42 seconds is the perfect time.
     
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    dave Senior member

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    When you're done having fun.

    fixed
     

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