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When do you call it quits dating a girl?

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by ndsleep612, Aug 6, 2011.

  1. ndsleep612

    ndsleep612 Well-Known Member

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    I'm currently in the getting to know stages of a girl from one of my classes. She's a foreign student who's been in the states for 3 years from Vietnam. When we talk, there are many times when she has no clue to what I'm talking about. Even when I try to explain a simple phrase or concept to her, she still has the deer in headlights look.

    She doesn't initiate anything when we hang out, I'm always the one figuring out stuff to do. All she does it go to work at a cafe and go straight home. Occasionally I like to eat raw food such as oysters and sushi, but this girl is totally against raw food. The dislike of raw food is an Asian FOB thing, due to the lack of hygiene in preparation of food. Knowing that there is a cultural and language barrier I'm wondering if I should call it quits or be patient and try to sit it out?
     


  2. Aaron01

    Aaron01 Senior member

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    Does she give up teh sexXx0rs? :smarmy:

    Generally, if you're questioning things, it's probably not a good sign...
     
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  3. curzon

    curzon Senior member

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    Count your blessings, m8. You could have a girl that's full of opinions and talks your ear off.

    Keep in mind that you've yet to hit jackpot: once you marry her you'll get to take care of her family. And the sick water buffalo, too.
     


  4. willpower

    willpower Senior member

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    Look for another chick while you're still with this one. That way, you can compare and contrast, plus you won't have single desperation stink on you when you go looking.
     


  5. gettoasty

    gettoasty Senior member

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    willpower, where is your blog at. i want to read it

    op: treat her well and she'll treat you well. she must be super cute for you to still be hanging out hm? about food, you should totally ask her to teach you all the great Vietnamese dishes, you will not look back...i don't.
     
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  6. VelvetGreen

    VelvetGreen Senior member

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    So she's stupid and boring?
     


  7. gettoasty

    gettoasty Senior member

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    Depends, have they known each other 3+ months?

    i bet she is just trying to act really innocent..
     


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    ter1413 Senior member

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    call what quits? you banging this chick or are you just friends?
     


  9. acidboy

    acidboy Senior member

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    lol.... the girl's probably just hanging out with you and nothing more
     


  10. Fuuma

    Fuuma Franchouillard Modasse

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    Usually it is after you're dating not before. From what I understand there is no relationship to "quit" so blah.
     


  11. edinatlanta

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    What? You mean SFers lack the ability to understand real, human relationships, especially ones with females? I don't believe you.
     


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    Shockingly enough, Style Forum may have helped me land a pretty lass.
     


  13. Nereis

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    Before you dump you must PIITB.
     


  14. Vidal_Balloon

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    Before you dump you must PIITB. confused:???
    Put it in the bidet?

    I thought that was after you dump:)
     
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    Nereis Senior member

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