slut, what's a slut anyway? it's just a word that means "person who has sex with multiple partners" and has very negative connotation and connotation means nothing. being a slut is a non-issue. sex is fun, nobody denies that. don't be a prude also: fuck what is "acceptable in modern society", it doesn't mean anything. you're young. you ARE modern society. what you choose to do today determines what will be acceptable in the "modern society" of tomorrow. I am with O/F on this, Oman. Not a question of prudishness.