hi. so i always wanted medium size air but never really tryed it, because it wasnt manly or my parents wouldnt aprove or i tought girls wouldnt like it, and im still not sure. i finaly grew my hair but people still make negative comments about it and im not sure what to do to improve it, i tought about colouring it at the tips with a lighter brown but im realy not sure, i even tought about dreadlocks but i dont even know how to make that hair style. my big problem is that i have a round puffy face and short hair makes me look fatter than i really am too big and im afraid i will look like a girl. what do you think i should do? do girls like men with big hair? also should i lose the beard? and my hair gets a little lighter after washing like for a day two at most.