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I think the danger is that they play into certain physical stereotypes. They can make a skinny guy look nerdy, a WASPy guy look arrogant, a fat guy look like he's wearing a bowtie. Sort of like wearing a hat, everything else has to be just right, and the guy has to understand (and accept) the image he's projecting.
They're best for guys who are socially at ease, I think. The more outgoing and naturally friendly you are, the less room people have to make assumptions about you.
They can make a skinny guy look nerdy, a WASPy guy look arrogant, a fat guy look like he's wearing a bowtie.
They're best for guys who are socially at ease, I think. The more outgoing and naturally friendly you are, the less room people have to make assumptions about you.
I see where you're going, but the difference is that a hat is functional as well as decorative so IMO it doesn't have such associations as a bow tie does.
You've got a point. I note that I see more hats on men in communities that generally pride themselves on being different. Berkeley is a good example. Yesterday on the course of a ten minute drive to the house, I saw four men in Panama hats and one in a straw fedora. But this does not extend to bow ties ... then again I don't see many ties in Berkeley.A fedora or panama on a dude my age is pretty unusual. But I like wearing them, so I do. I tell myself that the practical application makes them look more sensible, and I pair them with appropriate clothing, but, ultimately, I'm willing to look a bit eccentric. And that's the test for any uncommon item of apparel: Are you willing to be honest with yourself about how it makes you look, and are you comfortable being seen that way?
I see where you're going, but the difference is that a hat is functional as well as decorative so IMO it doesn't have such associations as a bow tie does.
A fedora or panama on a dude my age is pretty unusual. But I like wearing them, so I do. I tell myself that the practical application makes them look more sensible, and I pair them with appropriate clothing, but, ultimately, I'm willing to look a bit eccentric. And that's the test for any uncommon item of apparel: Are you willing to be honest with yourself about how it makes you look, and are you comfortable being seen that way?
My bet is that it will go over better in Alexandria than Austin.I've been trying to talk myself into buying a bow tie...but just can't pull the trigger! Are they acceptable to wear with a navy blazer? I associate bow ties with the South, summer, Hemingway, seersucker and khaki suits.
My bet is that it will go over better in Alexandria than Austin.
Oddly I prefer Austin ... and I do enjoy wearing a tie.True...no one in Austin wears a tie!!
You've got a point. I note that I see more hats on men in communities that generally pride themselves on being different. Berkeley is a good example. Yesterday on the course of a ten minute drive to the house, I saw four men in Panama hats and one in a straw fedora. But this does not extend to bow ties ... then again I don't see many ties in Berkeley.
My bet is that it will go over better in Alexandria than Austin.
True...no one in Austin wears a tie!!