Okay, so to start of with it is a weird set-up... I like this girl and we date on and off, it has not developed into a relationship... we like each other, but I need to focus on carrier and she understands this. We've known each other for a long time, and we don't see other people. So I was abroad for a while, whist I was away I get an email from her about some thing she is excited about happening to her, so I reply and say I'll speak to her when I get back. So the night I get back I'm sleeping and jet lagged, and I get a text message from her at 1am, so I contemplated not replying, and turning my phone off, but it had been a long time since I had spoken to her, even before I was away, so I reply, and in turns into a conversation of 40 odd texts back and forth, which I eventually have to end at 3am because I was just too tired. So today, 3 days later I text her in the afternoon, and no reply from her it's 9.30 pm. I know there is nothing wrong with her because I met her boss on the tube home from work, and she came up in our conversation. It's not that I don't like her, and I'm used to this, because she often does not reply texts, but it feels like bullshit, that I'd wake up jet lagged and absolutely knackered because she wants to talk, but if I send her a message, replying does not seem like an issue to her, I act like I don't care, but of course inside I do... it's bullshit.... Two reasons for my post, first to get it off my chest, and second to ask are all women like this, or is this due to me not wanting a proper relationship?