What do you do when your wife/GF is away?

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  1. jgold47

    jgold47 Senior member

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    I jerk off alot. I think I turned into a compuslive masterbator at one point in my life. I watch bad softcore porn on the big tv cause I can. Its not as good as the nasty shit on the computer, but it works. then again, this only happnes about 3 days a year. [​IMG]
     


  2. AntiHero84

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    Watch movies she has little or no interest in... Or that might scar her emotionally.

    Have a few more drinks than I would normally.

    Blast music and wander aimlessly on the internet.

    Go to a skatepark.

    Stay up way too late and wake up really early.

    Eat nothing but omelets, sandwiches, and pizza.

    Maybe take a day to peruse as many thrift stores as possible.

    Go to a hardcore or punk show and drop by the bar afterwards.

    Start missing her a few hours after she leaves.

    EDIT: ... oh yeah, and masturbate.
     


  3. thekunk07

    thekunk07 Senior member

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    on the contrary, i am lost when she's not around. i dont like socializing much save for the occasional football game/wings with buddies. only indulgence is 2 hr gym sessions when she's not around

    Married life sounds a little depressing.
     


  4. CouttsClient

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    on the contrary, i am lost when she's not around. i dont like socializing much save for the occasional football game/wings with buddies. only indulgence is 2 hr gym sessions when she's not around

    I'm very happy some people find this, but I don't ever want to be so close to anyone. Again.
     


  5. whiteslashasian

    whiteslashasian Senior member

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    I'm very happy some people find this, but I don't ever want to be so close to anyone. Again.

    I won't hurt you [​IMG]

    But seriously, you should probably get over that.
     


  6. thekunk07

    thekunk07 Senior member

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    well, it's not all roses. i am lost because there is no one to fight with or demand sex and food from
     


  7. CouttsClient

    CouttsClient Senior member

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    I won't hurt you [​IMG]

    But seriously, you should probably get over that.

    I tried but reality is often far different than my fantasy. Some things live with you...it is the way it is [​IMG]
     


  8. Neo_Version 7

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  9. CouttsClient

    CouttsClient Senior member

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    I'm sorry but in his case, I think it's pretty justifiable.

    http://www.styleforum.net/showpost.p...&postcount=784

    Not sure what made me post that initially, but I live with this dilemma and it's awful. To a person who is as relationship oriented as I am being unable to really let myself delve into one is torture. Especially now since I'm being heavily pursued by someone I've been "seeing" for a while. I recently had the "I think we should stop..." conversation. But anyway. That's all for a different thread. [​IMG] When I WAS in a relationship I mostly listened to my music without headphones and had the TV far too loud when I was alone. Most other things were the same.
     


  10. whiteslashasian

    whiteslashasian Senior member

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    I'm sorry but in his case, I think it's pretty justifiable.

    http://www.styleforum.net/showpost.p...&postcount=784


    W.T.F?!?!?!

    That is next level crazy there. I can't imagine going through something like that. How does something like that "just happen" out of the blue from a 4 year relationship?!
     


  11. Thomas

    Thomas Senior member

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  12. CouttsClient

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    W.T.F?!?!?!

    That is next level crazy there. I can't imagine going through something like that. How does something like that "just happen" out of the blue from a 4 year relationship?!


    Your guess would be only slightly worse than mine...I've been considering for a couple of months that I should write a letter or something but haven't been able to express myself nor to I believe I would ever get a real answer.

    oh holy hell CC - that's awful! I don't think I could ever get over something like that.

    It's been about 1.5yrs since and I'm over being distraught about it but the emotional damage just might be permanent. I'm a pretty easy going fellow and people would never guess I went through something so traumatic unless we begin discussing why I'm not in a relationship. Then people are all- [​IMG]
     


  13. Douglas

    Douglas Stupid ass member

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    wow. wtf. I'm sorry, man.
     


  14. NorCal

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    That's cold. My heart goes out to you, for real. No one should have that type of shit happen to them. Bitch even took your dog!
     


  15. oDD_LotS

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    When she's away:

    I turn up the TV (I'm slightly hard of hearing, so it's great to watch it at MY level without annoying her)

    I do all the messy/inconvenient projects around the house, things that require demolition or turning off the water

    I always get a LOT of cleaning/DIY stuff done

    I cook less (not that much fun cooking for one) and eat cheaply.

    I try to take the time to do all the stuff that I'm too busy/distracted to get done when she's here, partly so that I get a head start, but also so that she comes home to a neater house, remodeled bedroom, or organized finances.

    Mostly I do whatever I can to take my mind off missing her, though.
     


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