I'm currently 26 and about to attend a friend's wedding mid-July as a guest, whom I this year in graduate school (we're in the same class). I saved some wedding outfit pictures that I found pretty cool and decided to jump on this: I bought a cotten-linen blend from Proper Cloth a week ago, and am in the process of buying a Meermin suede double monk (this specifically: https://www.meermin.es/articulo.php?idArt=2694). But then, as I registered onto this site, I came across this article (http://www.styleforum.net/a/look-ni...should-try-to-look-your-best-at-every-wedding) saying I should wear a black or blue suit to not draw attention from the couple. Is this outfit too loud? What are your recommendations? If by chance it isn't too loud, I google imaged the Rapello suede double monks and is slightly disappointed in the color as it seems to be a darker brown than what the image has shown on Meermin's site. I noticed that there is another suede double monks (https://www.meermin.es/articulo.php?idArt=4703) that seems to be a lighter brown - do anybody have an idea if this color is actually lighter? (I couldn't find this on google image). Also, are these colors somewhat of a varying factor - as in, depending on the shoe, it might be slightly lighter or darker.