I am getting married on October 20th in NYC and am looking for the last odds and ends of what I am wearing. I would appreciate the forum's help in finalizing the details of the ensemble. I am wearing a MTM charcoal birdseye SB 2B suit with a vest. This picture resembles the suit fabric the best:http://www.huddersfieldcloth.com/images/F3143.jpg. It's nearly black, even in the brightest sunlight. The wife-to-be has requested that I wear a white tie and shirt, all of which I am for, but am having a difficult time finding white ties that I particularly like. I have searched online, at local tailors, Neiman Marcus, Bloomingdales, Nordstrom and the only one that I particularly liked was a Duchamp I saw at Bloomingdales, but the tight pattern may clash with the birdseye. See here: http://www.malfordoflondon.com/en/ties/2026-duchamp-tenebere-white-silver-tie-tie.html. I need a tie that is pretty substantial in thickness, since I am wearing a two button spread collar shirt, but everything I have found in white but they look cheap and generic. I have found a plethora of satin white ties but again they all feel a bit "prom" for me. Definately want something with a pattern to it. I would appreciate you guy's pointing me in the right direction. Also, I am looking for a white pocket square with a rolled grey or black edge. Should it be silk twill, paisley, linen, ...Opinions? Shoes to be are black cap toes, silver tie bar(not showing), silver and MOP cufflinks, watch is silver with black leather strap, all in all monochromatic; bride's orders. I am a bit of a peacock so am trying to "express" myself through fabric textures and qualities. Any opinions of things that sound too out there or suggestions are greatly appreciated!