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Unconventional Interview Attire Question

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I recently applied to a job overseas with a large finance firm. The hiring manager happens to be in NY and wants to meet with me at the W hotel bar at night.

I've never had an interview done this way before. What should I wear? Suit & tie? Suit and no tie? Jeans and blazer?

Should I even bring my resume?
 

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Originally Posted by cchen
I recently applied to a job overseas with a large finance firm. The hiring manager happens to be in NY and wants to meet with me at the W hotel bar at night.

I've never had an interview done this way before. What should I wear? Suit & tie? Suit and no tie? Jeans and blazer?

Should I even bring my resume?


First interview?
 

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Is it on a week night? If so, I'd do suit and tie. Zero downside: if he jokes about you not having to wear a tie for this, you can simply say that you know but you came straight from the office/another meeting. Too much downside in wearing jeans or something too casual.
 

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Originally Posted by gdl203
Is it on a week night? If so, I'd do suit and tie. Zero downside: if he jokes about you not having to wear a tie for this, you can simply say that you know but you came straight from the office/another meeting. Too much downside in wearing jeans or something too casual.

That^^. Also, if you have a briefcase/bag/etc, def bring a resume. No downside. If he asks, you have it. If he asks and you don't, you look like a moron. After all, it is an interview.
 

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Originally Posted by gdl203
Is it on a week night? If so, I'd do suit and tie. Zero downside: if he jokes about you not having to wear a tie for this, you can simply say that you know but you came straight from the office/another meeting. Too much downside in wearing jeans or something too casual.

Yes, it's actually tonight. They only gave me a few hours notice
 

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Originally Posted by cchen
Yes, it's actually tonight. They only gave me a few hours notice

Then do that. You can easily take your tie off there if you sense that you're perceived as overdressed .
 

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Originally Posted by cchen
Yes, it's actually tonight. They only gave me a few hours notice

Do you have on a suit?
 

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Originally Posted by gdl203
Then do that. You can easily take your tie off there if you sense that you're perceived as overdressed .

I honestly can't see how wearing a suit and tie to a nice hotel bar during a work night in NYC can ever be perceived as overdressed.
 

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Originally Posted by odoreater
I honestly can't see how wearing a suit and tie to a nice hotel bar during a work night in NYC can ever be perceived as overdressed.
It all depends on the guy he's meeting with - if the guy is wearing jeans and cracks a joke about him showing up in a suit & tie, then he's better off (commercially speaking) taking the tie off and making his interviewer feel a little mroe comfortable. It doesn't matter why he would perceive him as overdressed.
 

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Originally Posted by gdl203
It all depends on the guy he's meeting with - if the guy is wearing jeans and cracks a joke about him showing up in a suit & tie, then he's better off (commercially speaking) taking the tie off and making his interviewer feel a little mroe comfortable. It doesn't matter why he would perceive him as overdressed.

Agree^^. But the OP should DEF wear a suit and tie. It is an interview. The person doing the interview can be in shorts! OP should still be in a suit.
 

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Originally Posted by gdl203
It all depends on the guy he's meeting with - if the guy is wearing jeans and cracks a joke about him showing up in a suit & tie, then he's better off (commercially speaking) taking the tie off and making his interviewer feel a little mroe comfortable. It doesn't matter why he would perceive him as overdressed.

I get what you're saying, but I just don't see why anyone would be surprised or uncomfortable to see someone show up at a classy place in NYC at night wearing a suit.

And I don't know about anyone else, but if I showed up to an interview wearing a suit and tie and the interviewer was wearing jeans and a t-shirt, I still would not take my tie off.
 

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Originally Posted by odoreater
I get what you're saying, but I just don't see why anyone would be surprised or uncomfortable to see someone show up at a classy place in NYC at night wearing a suit.

And I don't know about anyone else, but if I showed up to an interview wearing a suit and tie and the interviewer was wearing jeans and a t-shirt, I still would not take my tie off.


100%. Unless the interviewer was my boy/good friend and we were just going through the motions.
 

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Originally Posted by bkstone
May be the interviewer could be a petty and jealous man/woman?
Then that's probably not the type of person you want to work for anyway.
 

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