rdawson808
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This may have an obvious answer but I thought I would ask for your thoughts and advice.
For our wedding we have decided on "black-tie optional" in order to encourage some guests to dress up a bit more than normal (it's in the evening and will be more of a **********tail party and dinner rather than a formal ceremony and reception). Everyone will know me, so it's not like someone will confuse me for just another guest, but still I don't want to look like a copy of everyone else in a tuxedo.
I do not particularly care of a cumberbund and prefer to wear a waistcoat. The bride will hopefully be wearing a champagne-colored dress so I could match my waistcoat to that somehow. That will definitely set me aside from other men. But it may be hard to find a waistcoat that will work (both aesthetically and financially). Oh, and if I do go for a special waistcoat, do I match my tie to it? That sounds kind of gimmicky to me and it seems the tie should still be black.
Does anyone have any ideas on other accessories I can use or other way I can set myself apart from the rest of the men in attendance? The buttoniere?
thanks,
bob
For our wedding we have decided on "black-tie optional" in order to encourage some guests to dress up a bit more than normal (it's in the evening and will be more of a **********tail party and dinner rather than a formal ceremony and reception). Everyone will know me, so it's not like someone will confuse me for just another guest, but still I don't want to look like a copy of everyone else in a tuxedo.
I do not particularly care of a cumberbund and prefer to wear a waistcoat. The bride will hopefully be wearing a champagne-colored dress so I could match my waistcoat to that somehow. That will definitely set me aside from other men. But it may be hard to find a waistcoat that will work (both aesthetically and financially). Oh, and if I do go for a special waistcoat, do I match my tie to it? That sounds kind of gimmicky to me and it seems the tie should still be black.
Does anyone have any ideas on other accessories I can use or other way I can set myself apart from the rest of the men in attendance? The buttoniere?
thanks,
bob