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Tips on picking up women?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Mr. Paul, Sep 8, 2012.

  1. Liquidus

    Liquidus Senior member

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    I've only done it once (still new to the idea of approaching random girls), on the bus, which made everything harder. I approached, made some conversation, got her number, and got off the bus in about 2 minutes. Blew my mind.
     
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  2. stayhealthy

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    dress well and make sure you don't have bad breath.
     


  3. bohemiandandy

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    If the girl is under 21 years old - these words cannot be any more truer.


    If the girl is over 21 years old - these words cannot be any more truer.
     
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  4. whiteslashasian

    whiteslashasian Senior member

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    I know plenty of mid to upper 20 year old women who prefer communicating via text. Even so far that they don't pick up the phone and then reply with a text asking "what's up?"....

    However I still employed the rule of calling to set up a date.
     


  5. Big Pun

    Big Pun Senior member

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    Agreed, you should start running directly at them and leaping to a stop right in their presence just to show you don't waste time.
     


  6. Sir Humphrey Appleby

    Sir Humphrey Appleby Senior member

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    Met this bird last night, offered to buy her a drink, total bill was £8 or so, I only had 50p so she ended up paying for both of them then she fucked off.
     


  7. ter1413

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    Well done......:eh:
     


  8. scarphe

    scarphe Senior member

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    well you did get a free drink.
     


  9. Sir Humphrey Appleby

    Sir Humphrey Appleby Senior member

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    Oh aye, but I was poor (certainly too poor to drink decent Gin like Bombay Sapphire), so no blowie. And she had nice tits. Shouldn't have even had the chance, I dried up when I was talking to a hot Finnish lass half an hour before.

    Signed up to Plenty of Fish today, what should I say in the about me section/how should I word it? I absolutely hate writing these things, they always sound camp as fuck.
     


  10. L'Incandescent

    L'Incandescent Senior member

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    I take an even more businesslike approach. I run up to them and say "Are you a woman in the straightforward sense of the term, or are you one of those women who have male reproductive organs, aka shemale? I mean to agree to terms quickly, and I don't have time to waste trying to guess the answer to the question posed." This works like a charm, but only if you really say "aka." (Don't pronounce it like one word though; say the names of the three letters.)
     


  11. AriGold

    AriGold Senior member

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    generally just having the confidence of being true to yourself, with an acute sense of understanding people and their emotions is the ingredient to picking up women. once you master this, you find that you don't have problems picking up women, but rather determining what you want in a woman.
     
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  12. Vastrm Darren

    Vastrm Darren Affiliate Vendor

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    I think having the confidence to talk to a random girl is half the battle. Don't make it too awkward, comment on something that applies to both of you and the situation you are in. Once this is done, and you're smiling and seem confident, you can try to land a number. It's always easier if you have an "excuse" for it. But definitely don't be too creepy, don't hang around for too long, and make it seem like you have things to do and get out of there.
     


  13. AriGold

    AriGold Senior member

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    that advice sucks
     


  14. Claghorn

    Claghorn Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    A friend of mine went through an escort phase about two months ago. 2-3 escorts a week. He grew out of it very quickly, a month or so...I think he may have realized he was beginning to spend more that he should..., but afterwards, he had no problem picking up women. I think that after you engage in such practices, there is a certain "I really just don't give a fuck" air about you that really works, because as far as I can tell nothing else really changed.
     


  15. AriGold

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    thanks for sharing Claghorny, now that is some real advice right there.
     


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