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Tips on picking up women?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Mr. Paul, Sep 8, 2012.

  1. AriGold

    AriGold Senior member

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    generally just having the confidence of being true to yourself, with an acute sense of understanding people and their emotions is the ingredient to picking up women. once you master this, you find that you don't have problems picking up women, but rather determining what you want in a woman.
     
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  2. Vastrm Darren

    Vastrm Darren Active Member

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    I think having the confidence to talk to a random girl is half the battle. Don't make it too awkward, comment on something that applies to both of you and the situation you are in. Once this is done, and you're smiling and seem confident, you can try to land a number. It's always easier if you have an "excuse" for it. But definitely don't be too creepy, don't hang around for too long, and make it seem like you have things to do and get out of there.
     
  3. AriGold

    AriGold Senior member

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    that advice sucks
     
  4. Claghorn

    Claghorn Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    A friend of mine went through an escort phase about two months ago. 2-3 escorts a week. He grew out of it very quickly, a month or so...I think he may have realized he was beginning to spend more that he should..., but afterwards, he had no problem picking up women. I think that after you engage in such practices, there is a certain "I really just don't give a fuck" air about you that really works, because as far as I can tell nothing else really changed.
     
  5. AriGold

    AriGold Senior member

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    thanks for sharing Claghorny, now that is some real advice right there.
     
  6. TheBIBS

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    Agree with Claghorn. You have to be confident and be willing to lose the girl. Smile A LOT. You could read a bunch of books about this subject but in the end, you have to go out and see what works for you.

    It's pretty much Attract, Build Comfort, Seduce.
     
  7. Big T

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    Always seems when you have, there are others wanting to hook up with you. When you are in a dry spell, nothing seems to work.
     
  8. Fisher Shard

    Fisher Shard Well-Known Member

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    wow, so much sarcasm on here, this place is really not that different from the misc it seems

    anyways

    there are forums like simple pickup that can give newbies like you some hint
     
  9. Fisher Shard

    Fisher Shard Well-Known Member

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    also

    try going to dating forums and just googling this stuff lol
     
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  10. ChazFromCali

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    Umm, try this. It may be too raw and in yer face but it's real world stuff not some dorky Pick Up Artist stuff. The thing is you have to be honest with yourself regarding "where you're at" and that may be hard for a lot of guys to deal with. It was for me. I just turned 50 had the worst year financially of my life in 2011 and hadn't got layed in a dogs age. But, within two weeks of studying some of Chris's vid's I was bangin an eighteen year old. I didn't set out to achieve that but the opportunity presented itself and I went with it. I think the thing you youngsta's [​IMG] may have to learn more about is "choosing signals", I sure did. So kudo's to Supreme.


    I'd recommend watch a lot of his past vid's on both his YT channels. Here is the "old" channel. http://www.youtube.com/user/ThePlayerSupremeshow This is where all his vid's are, about 1500 of them. Go back a year or two to get the flavor, then try out his new channel, here: http://www.youtube.com/ZenmackForums He hasn't put many vid's on it yet, all the good stuff is on the old channel.


    Best of luck gentlemen.
     
  11. AriGold

    AriGold Senior member

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    why you banging 18 years old for old man?!

    maybe i will understand once i am 50 but please enlighten me mate.





    there is no sarcasm.
     
  12. Jr Mouse

    Jr Mouse Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    +10000

    Women seem to be the ones pushing for text based communication these days.
     
  13. baba booey

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    This has been my experience too. A few have asked for me to call them, but I always find myself in the guessing game of call or text.
     
  14. Jr Mouse

    Jr Mouse Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    I think it's a cultural shift that will see itself swinging more towards quick text based communications over voice as time goes on. You also have to take into the fact that a phone call with a girl, before the first date, can end up a little awkward as you don't really know them yet. Some of these girls may just be protecting themselves from this.
     
  15. Bhowie

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    :uhoh:

    I don't want to bang 18 year olds and I'm half your age.
     
  16. scarphe

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    a hoodie, expandable baton, chloroform, rope, duct tape, and a vw van.

    you can get all the chicks you want with that stuff
     
  17. Claghorn

    Claghorn Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    When I was 18, all I wanted to do was sleep with women in their late 20s early 30s. When I was 22, all I wanted to do is sleep with women in their late 20s early 30s. Now I'm 27, and all I want to do is sleep with women in their late 20s and early 30s. I don't think that's going to change.

    Maybe the poor guy has been sleeping with 18 year olds his entire life and doesn't know what he's missing.
     
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  18. ChazFromCali

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    At that time it was the furthest thing from my mind to shag an eighteen year old. At my age it can be a challenge relating to women in their early thirties! But the opportunity presented itself. So.... I rocked her world. Poor thing had never really been shagged by somebody who knew what they were doing. You youngsta's need to sharpen your game, gramps is in town :)
     
  19. TheBIBS

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    Shagging is the only thing eighteen year olds are good for.
     
  20. AriGold

    AriGold Senior member

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    well my wife is only 18.
     

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