Time to yourself when married or living with a SO

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  1. patrickBOOTH

    patrickBOOTH Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    Yeah, I guess because I feel like our schedules are so strange that sometimes for a while the only time we spend together is in the evenings so I need to entertain her to some degree. We do enjoy dinner time together.
     
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    FLMountainMan White Hispanic

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    Women are so different in some ways. I've been answering questions at work all day, the last thing I want to do is walk home and immediately get the third degree. I told Laura that early on and she completely respects that. She'll give me a half hour or so to unwind and then I usually ask her about her day. Communication is a must - not just the mindless chatter that women love so much, but also you telling her what you need. If it's reasonable, she should respect it. If not, you should probably move on.
     
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    patrickBOOTH Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    You're right, she is very accomodating in like every way. More than any other woman I have known. I am just always afraid she will get all crazy woman on me.
     
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    Rambo Senior member

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    Jesus christ son, quit being a pussy and just tell her that you need a few minutes every day to have to yourself. To zone out, relax, or watch weird porn. Whatever it may be.
     
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    patrickBOOTH Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    She'd want to watch the weird porn with me.
     
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    tropics Senior member

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    well, that's going to happen anyway, so enjoy your time until the inevitable
     
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    Piobaire Not left of center?

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    KEEPER!
     
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    Rambo Senior member

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    Well, good, that's something you can do together. AFTER you've had your time to yourself.
     
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    patrickBOOTH Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    We tried watching porn together. I just felt it awkward. Porn is for my time only.
     
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    Rambo Senior member

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    Well there you go.
     
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    acidboy Senior member

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    well don't jerk off while she's there beside you!

    before we got married we talked about having our own personal time, specially since I didn't wanna cut off my seeing my friends just because I'm stuck at home with the wife. wife not only respected that but she also appreciated the fact that we can do our own thing without someone bugging the hell of the other. of course it could be difficult at times, and ime I learned to be extra sensitive whenever she wants more attention than usual. so anyway, even if we're just home, half the time we end up "solo" stuff and she never complains at all.

    but porn watching has to wait till she's asleep.
     
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    patrickBOOTH Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    There is this one particular porn site that I can't get enough of for pure intrigue and WTF!?!?. The weirdest, nastiest stuff you ever would want to see. She doesn't like that one.
     
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    acidboy Senior member

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    linky linky please
     
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    patrickBOOTH Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    If you really want it pm me.
     
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    gomestar Super Yelper

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    i love the direction this thread took in less than 2 pages
     

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