My girlfriend moved in with me at the beginning of the year and I have noticed something about how I spend my time at home. I feel like I have to be active in conversation with her, or actively paying attention to her and such. I just want to know from married people, or people living with a significant other how to you divide your time between your SO and yourself when at home? I know sometimes if the girlfriend is working late I will grab my computer and look at style forum and I see members posting from what I assume to be their homes and I know they are married. To me it seems weird to have kids, or a spouse and to be on the computer. Maybe it is just me and I have the mental obligation to occupy my time with my girlfriend just because she is there. Any thoughts, or insight?