RedLantern
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^ +1. Either that, or you believe you will be the exception. This was me. Hubris, FTW.
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^ +1. Either that, or you believe you will be the exception. This was me. Hubris, FTW.
I feel like if I never stated my age you wouldn't be so quick to jump to conclusions about my maturity.
Yeah that's the whole point. At 19, no one knows WTF they want to do and we are all really mature for our age and everyone is wrong about their assessments of us. Unless you are the truly one in a million case, and the odds say you aren't it, don't kid yourself into thinking you are.
Yeah that's the whole point. At 19, no one knows WTF they want to do and we are all really mature for our age and everyone is wrong about their assessments of us. Unless you are the truly one in a million case, and the odds say you aren't it, don't kid yourself into thinking you are.
It's just an amazing amazing combination of branding, image, reputation, etc... Everyone believes that they can go to a random law school and become a highly paid, respected attorney. They see biglaw and successful local guys on the billboards and think that those comprise 90% of the lawyers, when in reality it's anything but.
You're actually talking about two pretty disparate groups of attorneys. The guys on the local billboards and bus benches, by and large, did not go to T14 schools. Generally speaking, they're people who went to "lesser" schools and are making a career outside BigLaw by hustling like any entrepeneur.
Yeah that's the whole point. At 19, no one knows WTF they want to do and we are all really mature for our age and everyone is wrong about their assessments of us. Unless you are the truly one in a million case, and the odds say you aren't it, don't kid yourself into thinking you are. Don't limit yourself to either law or education, that's kind of the whole point. Be dumb, work as a journalist or some other bullshit trade for a few years, learn how to write and ask questions, then go to law school. Look all I'm saying is, you're pretty much showing the same swagger we all had at 19. Don't be afraid to have goals and work for them, **** like that you know, but just be a little more realistic and flexible in life.
+1. It's only been a few years since i was OP's age, but I think a good rule of thumb is that when people say they're mature for their age, they're not.
I know all of that. What I am saying is that to a lay person those are probably two groups of what they consider to be successful attorneys, and most people imagine that most attorneys join one of those groups and make a good living, when the reality of it is that the vast majority ends up litigating auto insurance cases, doing residential real estate closings, and so on.
EDIT: And listen to Lawyerdad. He speaks the truth.