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One of my mom's good friends looks to be on the brink of losing her long battle with cancer. She's battled cancer on and off longer than I've known her (since I was in high school), but she's remained one of the most positive people I've ever met.
It's said you need to have the right mindset to have a shot at beating an illness like cancer. In the end, her wonderful outlook won't be enough to beat it, but she's done more living in that time than some "healthy" people will do in their entire lives. I've never heard one remark of self-pity from her.
To be around someone who knows they're dying, yet loves every moment of life they have left, is inspiring. I can't say whether I'd be so optimistic in her position, but it's at least help me put things in perspective. We tend to dwell too much on the inconsequential things. There's something to learn from people like her.
It's said you need to have the right mindset to have a shot at beating an illness like cancer. In the end, her wonderful outlook won't be enough to beat it, but she's done more living in that time than some "healthy" people will do in their entire lives. I've never heard one remark of self-pity from her.
To be around someone who knows they're dying, yet loves every moment of life they have left, is inspiring. I can't say whether I'd be so optimistic in her position, but it's at least help me put things in perspective. We tend to dwell too much on the inconsequential things. There's something to learn from people like her.