No offense man, but if your relationship is in this dire of straits, you might want to think about ending it. My happy relationship isn't anything like this. Nah, not in a relationship any more. But every single one I've ever been in has been like this. I like a relationship to be as exciting as it is the first weeks. For that to happen you have to be consistently inconsistent, to keep the girl interested. Stagnation is the worst. And I like to be the director of the movie i'm in, IE not allow the girl to call the shots, which is something many are content to do. I hear about married men all the time not getting the physical relief they're entitled to. Hear about them paying for thousands of dollars of clother or what have you for the girl and getting verbally reamed when they buy a game for their xbox or whatever. That's not for me. Maybe it's just the women here, I don't know. But every relationship where I didn't wage war like this has ended, with me feeling like a big pussy.