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Piobaire

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Nose is stuffed up and I mouth breathed while sleeping all last night. I hate that and it doesn't let me sleep well. Have sinus headache too. Hoping nose clears up so I can smell my wine tonight. :(
 

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Not to rub salt in the wound, but how so? I have a hard time evaluating phone interviews, not actually having someone to look at for signals makes it tough.


it wasnt as crispy as I would have liked it to be. I still my be good. Will wait for a reply.
 

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Life and timing is TERRIBLE.
I've had my eye on a friend that I was quite into for a long, long time, since I broke up with my last serious relationship and left me pretty messed up. I never made a move because she was a friend, and didn't wanna jeopardize what we had until I fully knew I was ready to commit to a serious relationship. We have had some quite intimate friend-dates but I never made a move just because I didn't feel ready yet.
However, recently I met another girl and have become quite attached quite quickly. We've been seeing each other for 5 weeks, and have recently gotten serious about two weeks ago.
Tonight, through a series of text msgs and events, I spoke with the crush/friend, and found out that the feelings were reciprocal, but she also recently found out that that I had feelings from her from a 3rd party. However, another friend brought up a good point that what if she is only interested because I am not available?
Now I am completely torn between the friend I've been pining for for more than a year, and whom I've known as a friend for several years, or the girl I've fallen over but have only known for 5 weeks. My gut says the friend, my logic says the new girl.
I take a whiskey drink..... and could use a cigarette right about now.


Typically, I'd say gut over logic.

I had a 5 year relationship with a chick who used to be a good friend (of course I had a huge crush on her for like 2 years)

It was awesome, amazing, and the only reason we went our separate ways was because we were too young, and life happens. No regrets, fantastic relationship.

Of course, the new girl might be even better and the true love of your life. Not gonna know in the first 5 weeks, unfortunately.
 

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^ what are you saying? go with long term friend or 5 week'er? anywho, sonick, you are in a win-win place, relatively speaking of course.
 
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I can't seem to find where all the attractive people hang out.
 

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I can't seem to find Stazy's sister on facebook :confused:
 

Rambo

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Aggravating me - roommate is banging his 6th or 7th woman in the 2 months since I've moved in. Frustrating because my mojo's in the crapper and I can't go on the hunt.
 

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i''m atnot that absd of a roommate and it's not just 685 or 7thhh. You nlajust wern't her for lthe ohters
 
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have to complete my time sheet before i leave for vacation tomorrow. hate time sheets :fu:
 
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horrible weather ripped our tree from its roots; it landed on my car's rear glass window and completely shattered it.
:fu:

I don't know at who direct my anger.
 

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