all about "peacocking". Chicks are just looking to see that you dress differently. If you are super confident and know how to attract them, then you could technically get them by wearing a thong bikini. But looking nice makes it easier. You don't need to dress flashy, SF-approved outfits will do. But even in SF-approved outfits, you are still standing out as looking differently. In fact, I'd say SF outfits probably stand out more because not as many people wear suits properly, etc. I get lots of looks and pointing and even sometimes ridicule by what I consider relatively tame (often trad) outfits. In the end though, if you know you're the shit, then people will pick up on it. I literally cringe thinking about some of the outfits I wore when I first came to SF.