Its my way of showing whats on the inside. Its like any other style here where people aspire to something. I'm communicating my inner me through this style, and I really could care less about how its perceived as "effemminate" to you. Lots of people dress in certain ways on here where they try to capture their personality because its simply to evoke something to others. I agree wholeheartedly. My point is "whats on the inside" in your case is obviously a woman, whether you know it or are willing to admit it or not. Your "inner me" is not masculine or you wouldnt be cross dressing, I think that much is obvious.