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Sorry man, ragging on other people's style and purchases in very disrespectful ways has been the norm in most of the threads in this forum and the mods and admins didn't do ****. Well perhaps once when Fok told that kpop meme guy " **** you." And yea they kept repeating the same things for years. And you're one of them so don't play the innocent little girl. This is off topic so PM me if you got a personal issue.
Maybe it's a language issue, or maybe it's a culture issue, or a bit of both. For example, the idioms in the post above: "don't play the innocent litle girl" sounds very awkward to a native English speaker, and definitely sounds like something that was transliterated from another language. I can't be sure, of course. In any case, some points in your post above definitely points to a certain cultural tone-deafness.
I generally just let things go, but I know, from reports, etc... that more than just a few people find your online persona offputting. I really wish that I didn't have to write this post, but I've mentioned this a few times before, and you don't seem to have gotten the message to maybe tone it down a bit.
Just as an example of the tone-deafness, that Kpop meme guy and I actually have a good relationship. The "**** you" was not meant maliciously. It's a friendly "Yeah, whatever you prat. Go *************," between people who are used to teasing one another. We have met in person and had a good time (at least, I thought so.) Thre are certain things that point to that particular post of mine not being 100% serious, like the fact that I posted in immediately after posting an actual explanation/half apology. I'm not sure that I can explain it adequately if you don't get it.
I think that the best thing to do, if you are clearly not understanding the nuances of a culture or language, for whatever reason, is to be unfailingly polite. I know that I am fastidious about this in Spanish and French forums and social media. Though I can wrote conversationally in both languages, there are things that are over my head, and so I just make sure to stay respectable by any standard.