The secret to success with women

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  1. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    Game theory and marketing. Don't spoil your target, but don't completely ignore her. Walk into her group and make nice with all the guys so they won't cockblock you. However, don't get too comfortable, make it look like you're ready to leave at any moment. If she tries to grab your attention, neg her. Say how she's grabby, an attention whore or demanding. Phase two --- you isolate her and give her one on one time.

    A good opening would be like, "Looks like the party is over here" (say to all the guys), then say to the target, "if I wasn't gay, you'd be so mine." Another good one is like, "Oh my gosh, did you see the two girls fighting outside?" And then make up a story right there on the spot.

    Remember the characteristics of an alpha male:
    1. Good smile
    2. Confidence
    3. Well groomed
    4. Sense of Humor
    5. Social center


    Fuck you, faggot.
     


  2. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    ugh this shit is so old... speaking as someone IN the community.

    if you're inexperienced then you should hold off on giving public advice to people that is at least 3 years old and very out-of-date


    Which post is worse? Gosh I just can't decide!
     


  3. mafoofan Jr.

    mafoofan Jr. Senior member

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    7 pages of useless advice. I had a successful position last summer, before I got laid off, and I got more pearls than Ron Jeremy does in one month. It's all about Money and Confidence. Above all else, give signs that you can take care of her and her babies (if she already got banged) and she's in your pocket like that!
     


  4. Dakota rube

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  5. West24

    West24 Senior member

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    you guys are fucking pathetic. all u guys talking this "game" and "community" shit have major self esteem issues and need to seek help. act who you are, the girls who like you for yourself are the kind of girls you want, the ones who think ur an idiot are the kind you dont. whats so hard to understand? i know for you guys who werent born with a chizzled jaw line and eyes like the ocean blue may find it harder then me, but cummon.
     


  6. cheessus

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    I think I've lost some game as well as IQ points reading through these 7 pgs. It is simple. Be nice, but don't be a doormat. QED.
     


  7. dexterhaven

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    you guys are fucking pathetic. all u guys talking this "game" and "community" shit have major self esteem issues and need to seek help. act who you are, the girls who like you for yourself are the kind of girls you want, the ones who think ur an idiot are the kind you dont. whats so hard to understand? i know for you guys who werent born with a chiseled jaw line and eyes like the ocean blue may find it harder then me, but cummon.

    The last part of this post was funny, but the first part was chichÃ[​IMG] nonsense. The guys who turn to this "game" idiocy do so because they have been themselves and have had little to no success in the process. What woman would fall for the guy who likes Disney movies or the guy with the foot massage fetish? They're being true themselves, but come on.

    I have no problem with a man attempting to make himself into something better or more attractive to women. But I do wish that the men undertaking this process would not take tips from douchebags like that Mystery guy.
     


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    Biscotti Senior member

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    Become interesting; you can't love anyone until you love yourself!
     


  9. tiecollector

    tiecollector Senior member

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    Mystery is a douche, but how is taking tips from him any worse than taking tips from friends and various people you meet who have no clue?
     


  10. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    Because he's a sociopath and you shouldn't take relationship advice from Ed Geins.
     


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    Because he's a sociopath and you shouldn't take relationship advice from Ed Geins.
    So he doesn't have enough social proof.
     


  12. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    Social proof? Keep your queer game-speak jibberjabber to yourself.
     


  13. Matt

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    I'm on the fence here. I dont frequent the seduction boards, but I don't summarily dismiss the stuff those boys espouse. Part of my thing I guess is that I am pretty comfortable generally talking to women - that is a pretty decent starting point.

    That said, I watched Neil Strauss' Annihalation videos, and absolutely learned some key pointers that have been very helpful in chatting to women and in escalating my success.

    I don't go marching up to 3 sets and proclaim 'would you date a guy named Herbert'. In fact, I dont think I have ever called a group of people a set, and have never once used the phrase sarging...but I definitely think there is something to the teachings of those guys.
     


  14. dexterhaven

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    Mystery is a douche, but how is taking tips from him any worse than taking tips from friends and various people you meet who have no clue?

    Taking advice from clueless people is not the only alternative. There are sources that give good advice--or, at any rate--better advice than than those who urge men to start "peacocking" or throwing out "neg reps" or some such nonsense.
     


  15. tiecollector

    tiecollector Senior member

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    Social proof? Keep your queer game-speak jibberjabber to yourself.

    It's a marketing term that Mystery stole.
     


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