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The secret to success with women

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by SField, Dec 15, 2008.

  1. Berticus

    Berticus Senior member

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    Game theory and marketing. Don't spoil your target, but don't completely ignore her. Walk into her group and make nice with all the guys so they won't cockblock you. However, don't get too comfortable, make it look like you're ready to leave at any moment. If she tries to grab your attention, neg her. Say how she's grabby, an attention whore or demanding. Phase two --- you isolate her and give her one on one time. A good opening would be like, "Looks like the party is over here" (say to all the guys), then say to the target, "if I wasn't gay, you'd be so mine." Another good one is like, "Oh my gosh, did you see the two girls fighting outside?" And then make up a story right there on the spot. Remember the characteristics of an alpha male:
    1. Good smile
    2. Confidence
    3. Well groomed
    4. Sense of Humor
    5. Social center
     
  2. edmorel

    edmorel Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    Game theory and marketing. Don't spoil your target, but don't completely ignore her. Walk into her group and make nice with all the guys so they won't cockblock you. However, don't get too comfortable, make it look like you're ready to leave at any moment. If she tries to grab your attention, neg her. Say how she's grabby, an attention whore or demanding. Phase two --- you isolate her and give her one on one time.

    A good opening would be like, "Looks like the party is over here" (say to all the guys), then say to the target, "if I wasn't gay, you'd be so mine." Another good one is like, "Oh my gosh, did you see the two girls fighting outside?" And then make up a story right there on the spot.

    Remember the characteristics of an alpha male:
    1. Good smile
    2. Confidence
    3. Well groomed
    4. Sense of Humor
    5. Social center


    WTF??????????????
     
  3. Nil

    Nil Senior member

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    I have a feeling many women I've dated in the past would have been wary of any man with a well stocked collection of Disney animated movies.
     
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    I have a feeling many women I've dated in the past would have been wary of any man with a well stocked collection of Disney animated movies.

    Yeah, we all know Mary Kate and Ashley videos are better.
     
  5. Berticus

    Berticus Senior member

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    WTF??????????????

    It grabs their attention, doesn't matter what you say. Try it, it works.
     
  6. KhouriC

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    Game theory and marketing. Don't spoil your target, but don't completely ignore her. Walk into her group and make nice with all the guys so they won't cockblock you. However, don't get too comfortable, make it look like you're ready to leave at any moment. If she tries to grab your attention, neg her. Say how she's grabby, an attention whore or demanding. Phase two --- you isolate her and give her one on one time.

    A good opening would be like, "Looks like the party is over here" (say to all the guys), then say to the target, "if I wasn't gay, you'd be so mine." Another good one is like, "Oh my gosh, did you see the two girls fighting outside?" And then make up a story right there on the spot.

    Remember the characteristics of an alpha male:
    1. Good smile
    2. Confidence
    3. Well groomed
    4. Sense of Humor
    5. Social center


    you read the game one too many times and have "the PUA" TIVOed.........lame
     
  7. dtmt

    dtmt Senior member

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    [​IMG] Do the opposite
     
  8. Berticus

    Berticus Senior member

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    you read the game one too many times and have "the PUA" TIVOed.........lame

    It's a starting point. You take what you want away from it. Not lame.
     
  9. why

    why Senior member

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    If you seriously think telling women you're gay will entice them you're a retard. Bisexual, gay, whatever -- girls don't wanna hear it because they want to be the only one for you.

    And how the hell would you explain to someone why you said you were gay when you first met them?

    Trust me on this it doesn't work.
     
  10. Thomas

    Thomas Senior member

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    Publicly announce a vow of celibacy. Gawd, do the ladies ever love a challenge! [​IMG]

    ...waiting for GoSurface to weigh in on this...
     
  11. Nil

    Nil Senior member

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    A good opening would be like, "Looks like the party is over here" (say to all the guys), then say to the target, "if I wasn't gay, you'd be so mine." Another good one is like, "Oh my gosh, did you see the two girls fighting outside?" And then make up a story right there on the spot.

    Terrible, terrible advice. "Oh my gosh"? Really? "Gosh"? Come on...
     
  12. Berticus

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    When she's attracted to you, it won't matter. You can just play it off. For the record, I haven't completely read the Game. Not even the first 100 pages. The only alternative to memorizing openings is to do what I do, and that's to keep a curious and open mind, which is more difficult. Make quick observations and ask yourself questions to make yourself curious, then use that. The thing I'm taking from the book is how to pick up on direction. I didn't realize all of my possibilities until I started reading it. For example there was this one girl she and her group were about to leave, but I made a quick observation, asked myself a question, and approached her. I have no clue what I asked her or what was said, but within 5 minutes, while her friends kept on insisiting they leave, she insisted on staying and talking with me. In the end her friends were rushing us and all I got was a hug. If I had read this book, I would've asked for her number and a kiss good bye. Another example would be the time I introduced the game Three Man. I suppose I was unintentionally the wing man. As I distracted the other guys with this game, my roommate tried to talk to the girl there. Nothing happened between them though. A month later we were talking to a mutual friend, and he said she thought my roommate was a creep, but she was more interested in me. Actually all the girls thought I was interesting. But either way, I was totally clueless about what was happening and ended up drinking way too much. ---Edit--- I say gosh all the time, and nobody has a problem with it.
     
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    Gosh, this is a pathetic thread.
     
  14. unjung

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    When she's attracted to you, it won't matter. You can just play it off.

    For the record, I haven't completely read the Game. Not even the first 100 pages. The only alternative to memorizing openings is to do what I do, and that's to keep a curious and open mind, which is more difficult. Make quick observations and ask yourself questions to make yourself curious, then use that. The thing I'm taking from the book is how to pick up on direction. I didn't realize all of my possibilities until I started reading it.

    For example there was this one girl she and her group were about to leave, but I made a quick observation, asked myself a question, and approached her. I have no clue what I asked her or what was said, but within 5 minutes, while her friends kept on insisiting they leave, she insisted on staying and talking with me. In the end her friends were rushing us and all I got was a hug. If I had read this book, I would've asked for her number and a kiss good bye.

    Another example would be the time I introduced the game Three Man. I suppose I was unintentionally the wing man. As I distracted the other guys with this game, my roommate tried to talk to the girl there. Nothing happened between them though. A month later we were talking to a mutual friend, and he said she thought my roommate was a creep, but she was more interested in me. Actually all the girls thought I was interesting. But either way, I was totally clueless about what was happening and ended up drinking way too much.

    ---Edit---
    I say gosh all the time, and nobody has a problem with it.


    How old are you?

    What you've shown yourself is that the more you talk to people, the more likely you are to be noticed. You picked that up from a book? Super, keep up that reading!
     
  15. why

    why Senior member

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    Golly gee willikers!
     
  16. Berticus

    Berticus Senior member

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    How old are you?

    What you've shown yourself is that the more you talk to people, the more likely you are to be noticed. You picked that up from a book? Super, keep up that reading!


    No, what I picked up from the book was direction. I could've closed when I didn't. The talking and getting noticed happened before the book.
     
  17. unjung

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    No, what I picked up from the book was direction. I could've closed when I didn't. The talking and getting noticed happened before the book.
    The best-case scenario from following The Game and the philosophy of the guy that inspired it is that you'll eventually start getting play anytime you want it. However, to do that, you really do have to fit a certain mold, that might not be you, you have to bullshit constantly, with no thought to how you'll extract yourself later (e.g. the "if I wasn't gay" thing; and what happens if you actually like the girl), and you're preying on a certain type of girl, who is relatively easy to hit regardless of whether you do the stock Keys to the VIP approach. It's shallow. And for most, if they stuck with it, would leave them lonely and confused at the end of the road.
     
  18. Nil

    Nil Senior member

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    You needed a book to tell you to ask a girl for her number?
     
  19. why

    why Senior member

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    You needed a book to tell you to ask a girl for her number?

    I remember when I was younger I was with an even younger friend on a flight back from Chicago with a friend. There were two girls sitting across the aisle from us and my friend insisted he sit in the aisle seat. I start talking to them and my friend joins in the conversation. One of the girls was interested in him so I told him to ask the girl for her number...

    'Do you have like...a screen name?'
     
  20. Nil

    Nil Senior member

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    I remember when I was younger I was with an even younger friend on a flight back from Chicago with a friend. There were two girls sitting across the aisle from us and my friend insisted he sit in the aisle seat. I start talking to them and my friend joins in the conversation. One of the girls was interested in him so I told him to ask the girl for her number... 'Do you have like...a screen name?'
    Early on in college a girl gave me her AIM screen name. I never contacted her.
     

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