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The Power of Negative Thinking

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Rambo, Jan 6, 2013.

  1. Rambo

    Rambo Stylish Dinosaur

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    I'M IN MIAMI, BITCH
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  2. Piobaire

    Piobaire Not left of center?

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    So what you're telling us is that you're the happiest guy in the forum? :confused:
     


  3. Claghorn

    Claghorn Stylish Dinosaur Dubiously Honored

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    ThAt would be an interesting contest. Would SSRIs be considered PEDs?
     


  4. StephenHero

    StephenHero Black Floridian

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    I need this science so bad.
     


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    Thomas Stylish Dinosaur

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    A few thoughts. First, I went through a year as detailed in the first paragraph: lived on ramen noodles, had a telephone, bed, etc. It was fine and really set a baseline for redefining needs - however, one of the underlying thoughts was that things would change soon when I was ready to have them change. I think there's a psychological difference between being able to choose to live under lean circumstances, and having no other choice - but I could be wrong.

    2. I rode the underground when I was in London, and it was such a treat. I would kill to have something like that in Houston.

    c) Paragraph 3. Agree there. Sometimes you have to get past the reflexive reactions and ask yourself precisely what's so bad about the worst case. I vaguely recall something about Cicero before his exile, making himself more miserable than anyone thought warranted (but this is fuzzy and comes from one source)
     


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    donjuan17 Distinguished Member

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    Sun Tzu says to use this as strategy of war in The Art of War. Think of every possible outcome and weigh your possible loses against your potential gain.
    Great philosophy.
     


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