• Hi, I am the owner and main administrator of Styleforum. If you find the forum useful and fun, please help support it by buying through the posted links on the forum. Our main, very popular sales thread, where the latest and best sales are listed, are posted HERE

    Purchases made through some of our links earns a commission for the forum and allows us to do the work of maintaining and improving it. Finally, thanks for being a part of this community. We realize that there are many choices today on the internet, and we have all of you to thank for making Styleforum the foremost destination for discussions of menswear.
  • This site contains affiliate links for which Styleforum may be compensated.
  • STYLE. COMMUNITY. GREAT CLOTHING.

    Bored of counting likes on social networks? At Styleforum, you’ll find rousing discussions that go beyond strings of emojis.

    Click Here to join Styleforum's thousands of style enthusiasts today!

    Styleforum is supported in part by commission earning affiliate links sitewide. Please support us by using them. You may learn more here.

Joffrey

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Jun 18, 2006
Messages
12,312
Reaction score
1,566
My agent that helped me purchase my condo (her first sale!) asked that I write her a review on zillow. I really would like to help her out but do not have a zillow account nor intend to start one just for this. Am I a jerk?
 

sugarbutch

Bearded Prick
Dubiously Honored
Joined
Dec 10, 2010
Messages
24,653
Reaction score
35,685
My agent that helped me purchase my condo (her first sale!) asked that I write her a review on zillow. I really would like to help her out but do not have a zillow account nor intend to start one just for this. Am I a jerk?
You might be. But not for this reason.
 

imatlas

Saucy White Boy
Joined
May 27, 2008
Messages
24,790
Reaction score
28,600
Naturally replacing the rotten trim around our garage door has now spiraled into doing major structural repairs along with replacing the garage door and automatic opener.
 

otc

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Aug 15, 2008
Messages
24,528
Reaction score
19,182
That sounds very restrictive. You guys don’t have laws that prohibit these kinds of rental contracts? A months notice is the most you’ll get here, and for sure not on round years.

that contract would be laughed out of court, with the very real possibility that she would be fined for predatory practices as a parting gift.

By the way, love ‘the Van Veen property saga ’ .

That kind of stuff is pretty normal here I think, although rules vary a lot between cities/states.

I mean--you signed an agreement to rent a place for 12 months...shouldn't there be some penalty for breach if you decide you want to leave early? You can find people who will give you a contract with reduced notice requirements, but that usually comes at a premium. Maybe there are some places where the law makes all leases flexible, but my bet would be that average housing costs are slightly higher there since the landlords take more risk.

Often there's some sort of buy-out clause where you can pay 2-3 months of rent to break the lease. And around here you have the legal right to sublease your unit, so if you can find someone to move in and take over your payments, your landlord has to allow it within reason. Otherwise you are responsible for paying rent every month whether you are physically there or not.

You can break the lease for things like breaking the law or failure to do maintenance, but even that usually requires giving notice and offering a chance to fix. E.g. in my town they get 3 days for major issues like no heat and 14 days for other issues. If they don't fix within that time period, you are free to break the lease, but you have to actually give them notice, and you must break within 30 days of that notice expiring.

That's probably where Van Veen is going to run into trouble. He has a list of grievances, but he didn't complain in writing, wait for them to not get fixed, and then immediately move out. He stayed in the unit (and self-remedied some issues) until it was convenient to leave (he bought a house) which makes it hard to prove the case that they unit was not habitable.
 

Van Veen

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Jun 14, 2011
Messages
12,740
Reaction score
14,249
That sounds very restrictive. You guys don’t have laws that prohibit these kinds of rental contracts? A months notice is the most you’ll get here, and for sure not on round years.

that contract would be laughed out of court, with the very real possibility that she would be fined for predatory practices as a parting gift.

By the way, love ‘the Van Veen property saga ’ .
My lawyer says no lawyer would agree to represent her given the way the lease is written. Mainly because it doesn't allow her to recover attorney's fees.

Oh and also since she claims to have an attorney, he says that he can't send her a letter directly. He has to send it to the attorney. So now we get to call her bluff and ask for her attorney's address.
 

NorCal

Distinguished Member
Joined
Jun 3, 2007
Messages
9,988
Reaction score
4,696
My agent that helped me purchase my condo (her first sale!) asked that I write her a review on zillow. I really would like to help her out but do not have a zillow account nor intend to start one just for this. Am I a jerk?
Yes. Hook a girl up.
 

sugarbutch

Bearded Prick
Dubiously Honored
Joined
Dec 10, 2010
Messages
24,653
Reaction score
35,685
We paid $300 this morning for a plumber to clear the VERY slow drain in our backyard. Turns out some construction debris from our remodel a few years ago was obstructing it. Given how little rain we get, this was easy to back-burner, but I'm happy to have it checked off the list. I'm even more pleased that I cleared out the scupper on our roof a couple of months ago when I fixed the skylight mechanism in our bathroom.

EDIT: The context is that the Bay Area is in the middle of the atmospheric river, and both would have been a pain **********.
 

Piobaire

Not left of center?
Joined
Dec 5, 2006
Messages
81,832
Reaction score
63,358

Van Veen

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Jun 14, 2011
Messages
12,740
Reaction score
14,249
That's probably where Van Veen is going to run into trouble. He has a list of grievances, but he didn't complain in writing, wait for them to not get fixed, and then immediately move out. He stayed in the unit (and self-remedied some issues) until it was convenient to leave (he bought a house) which makes it hard to prove the case that they unit was not habitable.
The argument isn't that the unit wasn't habitable. It clearly was.

The argument is that the way she treated us every time we made a repair request was harassment intended to dissuade us from making further requests. Most overtly, "Its been two months since you have reported something wrong so I guess we are all lucky!" is clearly meant to make us feel guilty about making repair requests.

It should not take a 20-30 minute back and forth conversation to get her to send a plumber to fix a leak. I should not have to draw a floorplan of the house to explain to her why she's wrong about which bathroom is leaking through to the downstairs ceiling. I should not have to go back and forth with her to get her to replace smoke detector from 1975. It's not your tenant's responsibility to diagnose plumbing and electrical problems so you don't have to pay the plumber/electrician as much. Literally every time we asked for a repair, if she actually agreed to do it, that took multiple frustrating back-and-forth emails or texts before she actually did something.

By repeatedly claiming we're responsible for making certain repairs, she's preying on the fact that this is an unequal bargaining relationship. Until I started researching this, I was not aware of the fact that she cannot pass her maintenance duties onto the tenant. A tenant must also be fairly compensated (outside of the lease) for making any repairs the landlord requests.

What finally pushed us over the edge was her writing a pages-long screed about our responsibilities as tenants that is completely incorrect in terms of NC rental laws.

We'll see what happens if she does sue us.

How much do you owe your lawyer at this point?
$0. It pays to build relationships.
 

Piobaire

Not left of center?
Joined
Dec 5, 2006
Messages
81,832
Reaction score
63,358
? ? ? ? ? ?
 

otc

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Aug 15, 2008
Messages
24,528
Reaction score
19,182
The argument isn't that the unit wasn't habitable. It clearly was.

The argument is that the way she treated us every time we made a repair request was harassment intended to dissuade us from making further requests. Most overtly, "Its been two months since you have reported something wrong so I guess we are all lucky!" is clearly meant to make us feel guilty about making repair requests.

It should not take a 20-30 minute back and forth conversation to get her to send a plumber to fix a leak. I should not have to draw a floorplan of the house to explain to her why she's wrong about which bathroom is leaking through to the downstairs ceiling. I should not have to go back and forth with her to get her to replace smoke detector from 1975. It's not your tenant's responsibility to diagnose plumbing and electrical problems so you don't have to pay the plumber/electrician as much. Literally every time we asked for a repair, if she actually agreed to do it, that took multiple frustrating back-and-forth emails or texts before she actually did something.

By repeatedly claiming we're responsible for making certain repairs, she's preying on the fact that this is an unequal bargaining relationship. Until I started researching this, I was not aware of the fact that she cannot pass her maintenance duties onto the tenant. A tenant must also be fairly compensated (outside of the lease) for making any repairs the landlord requests.

What finally pushed us over the edge was her writing a pages-long screed about our responsibilities as tenants that is completely incorrect in terms of NC rental laws.

We'll see what happens if she does sue us.


$0. It pays to build relationships.

I'm not saying your landlord doesn't suck.

I'm just saying that in a lot of places if you didn't take issue with that at the time it was occurring and act immediately with written demands (and then move out when she didn't meat them) that it makes your case a lot harder to prove.

Although at least you have your SF posts! That's gotta be courtroom gold--timestamped immutable records of the actions you did attempt to take to assert your rights as a tenant which is exactly what you need to try to prove some kind of retaliation case.
 

Featured Sponsor

How important is full vs half canvas to you for heavier sport jackets?

  • Definitely full canvas only

    Votes: 91 37.9%
  • Half canvas is fine

    Votes: 89 37.1%
  • Really don't care

    Votes: 25 10.4%
  • Depends on fabric

    Votes: 39 16.3%
  • Depends on price

    Votes: 37 15.4%

Forum statistics

Threads
506,795
Messages
10,591,863
Members
224,312
Latest member
WealthBrainCode1
Top