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The 27 Year Old Virgin

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by amathew, May 13, 2012.

  1. Bhowie

    Bhowie Senior member

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    Reggs, did you learn so much about women while larping?
     
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  2. HomerJ

    HomerJ Senior member

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    Take it a step further. Even the "confidence" of "hot confident guy" is based on sex appeal.

    An unattractive guy would be called "arrogant" but an attractive guy acting the same way is "confident".
     
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  3. why

    why Senior member

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    Blind leading the blind. Why would you ask this question on a site with a good chunk of its members themselves awkward virgins and some of the biggest threads are about porn or are photo dumps of women categorized by race and hair color?
     
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    Made me lol.
     
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  5. LA Guy

    LA Guy Opposite Santa Staff Member Admin Moderator

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    I credit my decent, but by no means Wilt Chamberlinesque, success with women, to the fact that I had to use google to figure out what is a larp.
     
  6. LA Guy

    LA Guy Opposite Santa Staff Member Admin Moderator

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    By extrapolation, are you saying that a good chunk of people who work in the porn industry are awkward virgins?
     
  7. why

    why Senior member

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    About as much as I'm saying hair salons are full of awkward virgins and discussions of pornography.

    I don't know if you're trying to be funny here or what because what you said makes no sense.
     
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  8. amathew

    amathew Senior member

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    Biscotti Senior member

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    I just don't understand...
     
  10. deadly7

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    I don't know what you hope to gain from visiting websites like that. Socializing is never a natural process. Even the most gifted had to spend a lot of time learning how to do it. Find something that helps you meet people and talk to them. Spending your time wallowing on the internet looking for "Me too!!!" is only going to keep you at square one. You already know what the problem is: you don't like things most people your age do and don't know how to talk to them. There's no quick and easy solution for it. Therapy is useless, meds aren't really that helpful (unless you have severe social anxiety). The only way is to practice.
     
  11. Biscotti

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    How will that forum help at all? Maybe if you want to surround yourself by how much life sucks, which will just make shit worse.

    edit, well deadly7 beat me to it
     
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  12. scarphe

    scarphe Senior member

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    after those links and if fit with those people you are about 2 years away from getting anyway near girl in a dating sense.
    Hire a hooker
    this has been said but think about it by the time even you try to get bed girl you will be touching 30 do not be 30 year old virgin, at 26 you feel weird and 30 you will be a creep
     
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    Pretend you are asking to learn how to swim:

    Would you be finding help on forums exclusively; maybe you would use forums to find pools and bodies of water, maybe the right swim gear, that's about it.

    You have to jump into the water.

    You will look silly in the beginning, but oh well.

    Now, go out there and learn how to swim!
     
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  15. amathew

    amathew Senior member

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    Wow, I haven't even put that much thought into my ideal partner. As long as they have a vag and aren't obese, I'm good.
     
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    I don't think my sensitivity is the issue, I think your ignorance is.
     
  17. amathew

    amathew Senior member

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    OP here. I don't think he's so far off. Sure, eating curry frequently doesn't cause it to ooze out of one's pores, but a lot of Indian guys (especially fobs) do smell. rms340 mentioned
    that he interacted with a lot of Indians in college, so I assume they were just fobs with weren't familiar with american notions of cleanliness and weren't used to deodorant.

    I also think he's right with his suggestion to limit eating indian food. I haven't eaten indian food in a year, and it's largely because i don't like the taste of it and it's extremely unhealthy.
     
  18. b1os

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    What?
     
  19. amathew

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    Indian food is unhealthy. Lots of butter and spicy curry's.

    It's probably not "unhealthier" than any other foods, and in moderation, it's probably fine.
     

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