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The 27 Year Old Virgin

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by amathew, May 13, 2012.

  1. Reggs

    Reggs Senior member

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    Have not read the thread. Intoxicated. Work with Indian engineers. Studied with Indian nerds in Col.

    -Indians are friendly social people, but men like you can be very concerned about "stuff" and not with emotions and bullshit that girls enjoy. Just think about this when talking to girls. They don't weigh cause/effect, priorities, structure ect like we do. Lots of Indian guys are very friendly and personable people, but this one thing is holding them back from girls.

    -I'm sorry, but elephant in the room, limit your curry intake to 1 meal 3 times a week at MOST, and use a sauna/steam room regularly, and drink lots of water. With cologne , anything more than 2 sprays is excessive, arguably more than 1. I'm not trying to be mean with any of this, but I have worked in a gym during col and know how things get when just a minuscule amount of body odor is emitted by some Americanized Indians. I've known Indian guys who were very Americanized but unknowingly walled in by this shit.

    -Hang out with non-indian guys, and be proactive in making it happen. Some of the most Americanized Indian guys will buddy up with other Indian guys, hang out with them 24/7, and get depressed about not getting any girls before marriage. I mean...really.

    -Be stupid, necklace, dangerous, and do things that will bring you great shame when you look back. You are still young at 26. You still have a few years left. Just fucking do it.

    -Confidence. Indians have a lot on their side because they are of a race that can be attractive to women of many races. Even a bit of accent can be more on the exotic side than nerdy. Their ethnic facial features still retain a universal masculine appeal. Lots of Indian guys are awkward around girls, but your looks are almost never a problem. Knowing this should at lest get your foot in the door with talking to girls.

    -Hire a prostitute. There is no downside to this. Use protection. No one will ever know about it. It will suprise you how much it has helped you and how much it never happened.
     


  2. amathew

    amathew Senior member

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    Thanks.

    I wasn't really trying to use race as an excuse for why I wasn't successful with women, because I really don't believe that's the issue. But there probably are some cultural factors that do play a role in my scenario.

    As a side noted, I have not eaten indian food in almost one year, so I'm fine on the not smelling part. Heck, I usually bathe 2 times a day and wear just 1 spray of cologne, so I'm good on that end.

    I also don't have an accent. My parents were very intent on me not having an accent, so when I moved here at age 5 I had to read the newspaper and bible each day to perfect my english.

    And I do think there is a downside to getting a prostitute, namely going to jail. (I'd love to be reckless, but there just consequences that I have to think about.)
     
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  3. gort

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    Do you wear deodorant?
     


  4. amathew

    amathew Senior member

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    Anti-Persperant w/ Deodorant
     


  5. KingJulien

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    Guys he's been living here since he was five. Anyway, it seems like you're a pretty nice & intelligent guy, in shape, and otherwise take care of your appearance, so I think all you gotta do is be more friendly. Also I'm not sure I'd really feel comfortable going to meetups like that either. Are you interested in politics or social change or anything? Go occupy wall street or join a soup kitchen, something you're actually into, you'll be sure to meet people and at those types of things they're usually pretty cool.
     


  6. amathew

    amathew Senior member

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    I went to a few meetup.com groups in the past and the problem was that they were largely full of old people. And the young groups that do exist are centered around clubbing and getting drunk.

    The political activism and volunteering suggestion should be good. I'll look into it.
     


  7. impolyt_one

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    Hi, my name is amathew and I'm a 26 year old virgin, really sensitive about it. However, no matter what you suggest to me about handling my business, and what I really should be doing about handling the most natural thing in human nature, I shall promptly reject your suggestions, not on the basis of religion or morals - simply because I don't like it and I just like being alone and a virgin. and talking about being a virgin alone.
     


  8. CalTex

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    wait...so this guy doesn't have any friends?



    #2, pick up a psychology book about dating and relationships. If you don't get anything from it at least you read a book lol. I took a human sexuality class and I have talked to a few women about their body and common misconceptions on more than one occasion. Plus you learn and you can use something you learned in conversation, as long as you don't do it in a creepy way.



    +1 but some of the ones I have met expect you to spend money on them and put them on a pedestal, not my thing.



    :plain: hell no, unless he is really unattractive/dumb/nofuture and that does not seem to be his case. I have plenty of friends that date numerous women but I see pictures of the girls and I do not find them very attractive. I am not saying that I have the most luck when it comes to women, as most of you know lol, but I am okay with focusing on my carrer and establishing myself. If I am 40, poor, single, and fat that is when life will become very depressing very fast.
     


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    Yeah that is good advice. Especially since those people tend to be more open minded about giving up some poon to a non-white guy such as yourself.
     
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    A disproportionate number of my friends were late virgins, and the "unreasonably high standards" thing was part of it. If you're got no experience, no game, aren't exceptional looking, you just might want to open things up a little just to get some experience. Maybe she isn't wife material or you aren't going to post her picture in one of the babe threads, but you're having fun (hopefully) and gaining experience. Few enough people with no experience in their 20s jump right in and land a 10. And you never know, maybe you'll find that some of the non-obvious qualities more than make up for the average looks.
     


  11. impolyt_one

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    May I suggest some readings, OP?

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    Wow, this is the possibly the stupidest/most ignorant post I've read on this forum. Reduce your curry intake? Go use a sauna? To get the curry smell out of his pores? Are you shitting me? I'm Indian myself and can't help but think how dumb you are by posting this. I might need someone to check my BO level, because being Indian leaves me genetically predisposed to not recognize how bad I smell.
     


  13. CalTex

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    wait...I cant remember and I dont want to reread what he as said...is he just trying to to le sechs? If thats the case, maybe he should reconsider lowering his standards lol. I guess I was replying from my perspective. It would be great to find a conservative, smart, and attractive girl but the powers above apparently do not want that for me. OR I am really bad when it comes to talking to girls, which may be the case :plain:


    lol, three of my close friends are indian they do not smell all the time...only on occasion when they eat ethnic food at home. But seriously I loled at his comment.

    Its okay man its okay.
     
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  14. KingJulien

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    Yeah this thread is racist as fuck to be honest. I know indian dudes with mad swag, it's not a fucking handicap to not be white, people.

    Please do not read any pickup artist bullshit.
     
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  15. CalTex

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    Well I have noticed that a lot of "white" girls in Houston tend to be attracted to "white" guys. I do not get out much so I may be wrong, but that is just what I have observed. Hell the guy can be a construction worker (I am not saying there is anything wrong with that) and stupid but he has a pretty girl with him. This might have something to do with the places that I have been to as well.

    Anyway, in my honest opinion it has a lot to do with who you are and how you carry yourself as a person. Sure some girls are going to like the "cool" guy but how long is that phase going to last. I would also advise you to not read the pickup artist books, I feel that the possibility of you gaining a significant relationship by approaching/treating girls in the manner they advise is very very small. I would much rather be single than having numerous girls that mean nothing, one significant relationship > hoes (IMO...sure call me gay if you want).

    Be confident in who you are. hell I joined a friend at a party a few weekends ago and I was speaking in spanish and this girl just happened to walk by and she started talking to me. I can speak spanish with an accent if I am talking to friends but I can also be formal and it just so happens that I was talking to a friend. The accent may have also helped. Then I started messing with her about not being fluent in spanish, she is columbian, and she asked me to save her number. I think she only wants le sechs so I am not interest but hey at least I got an ego boost for the night lol. Be yourself and be confident in who you are.
     


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