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The 27 Year Old Virgin

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by amathew, May 13, 2012.

  1. Pennglock

    Pennglock Senior member

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    This is very true. It takes a good deal of narcissism to feel as sorry about oneself as some people do.
     
  2. b1os

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    Drew, has your hearing at least improved a little? :(
     
  3. impolyt_one

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    Nah I can't hear. It's not coming back either, unless a miracle happens. As above though, I do make sure to remind myself that everybody has their own sort of problems and that sitting around feeling sorry for yourself and not doing anything with what you have is a pretty shitty existence, I don't let it control me. It might even surprise the tagutcow but I have had times of loneliness myself, and I have in the past lived doing not much but wallowing in self-pity - and then I looked back on all the time I had wasted and considered that the world at large really gave not a single fuck during those spans, and decided to change that part of me.

    Anyway, it's more an inconvenience for others than it is for me, I am alive.
     
  4. KingJulien

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    That was a great post
     
  5. Fraiche

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    It seems like SF wants amathew to get laid more so than himself. It's really hard to help someone who dosen't want to help himself as much.

    Perhaps it's related to low testosterone? Might consider getting that checked at your next doctor's appointment.
     
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  6. Find Finn

    Find Finn Senior member

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    You can't miss something you never had.
     
  7. SirTristan

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    I agree 100% word for word
     
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    I can try to help. Go to places where people that share your interest will hang out at. You first have to think positive. Thinking positive will show through your body language, tone and words you choose. You have to know yourself that you may be able to make her happy. If you think you can make her happy then you will behave as such. Now that your thinking positive about yourself, think something positive about her. What is it about her that makes you interested. Her smile, eyes, lips, hair or how she walks, talks and her style of clothes maybe. The point is to find something you think is appealing about her. Once you got that figured out, remember it and begin to approach her. As soon as you make eye contact. SMILE! SMILE and SMILE. I'm telling you, a smile can go a long ways. Imagine she is a good friend who you haven't seen in years and your excited to see her. Introduce yourself and be honest about why your approaching her. Shit, tell her that you think she looks good and you want to get to know her. In your own words of course. But be honest because your perception of her may be different than anyone else. That may break the ice. Its is a numbers game as far as rejections go. Win some and lose some but winners never quit. Practice, practice, practice. Practice thinking positive, approaching a woman with a smile and asking open ended questions. Use the five "W's" and sometimes How. Stand in front of the mirror with your fresh clothes on and practice. Muscle memory will kick in soon. What I think is most important out of what I said, is to know yourself that you may be able to make her happy before you even approach her. Hope this adds to your knowledge. may the force be with you
     
  9. impolyt_one

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    I saw a proper picture of OP in SW+D in one of the threads - he's no Brad Pitt, but he looks totally normal. Also, he doesn't appear that short.
     
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    Looks usually have nothing to do with guys being single. There are hideous men out there with women. It's almost always confidence or lack thereof
     
  12. Matt

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    This thread is still going?

    The solution at this point is simple...if he sits in his room long enough, sooner or later a girl will walk in there, naked, and plead for him to take her. It has to happen. It's really just a matter of time. There's like a law of averages or probabilities or something....
     
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    I thought that is pretty much how it worked from what I recall of M@T's "This is how we roll". :smarmy:
     
  14. texas_jack

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    an infinite amount amount of monkies with an infinite amount of time will take your virginity.
     
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  15. KingJulien

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    OP have you made any friends yet? Go get a membership to a climbing or boxing gym, take a class or two to learn the ropes, and start going. You'll meet people and make friends and it's in line with your fitness interests. Seriously.

    I know it's sort of difficult to start, but you can man up and do the hard thing or just be miserable for the 60 or so years you have left. You'll have a new hobby to take up your time, and most importantly you'll make friends.
     
  16. impolyt_one

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    ^ Dude is right, if you are shy and never stand a chance of just talking up a girl cold, you might do better hanging out with guys at first to gain a web of friends who will inevitably bring around other girls. The guys can vouch for you and talk up your personal strengths and it's in the bag from there.
     
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    So, in order for the OP to get into girls, he has to go through guys first. What's that saying about the shortest distance between two points being a straight line? That is not good advice, as OP will either turn gay, or he will fall into that special group of people who equate fitness goals with things of actual significance.
     
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  18. YOLO EMSHI

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    yeah man having male friends will make you gay before you know it
     
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  19. mgm9128

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    No. That is not what I said. I just do not see the utility of employing men in the pursuit of women. If you need another man to make you look good, you are doing something wrong. Just my opinion, of course.
     
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    Technically correct, but practically wrong. Deep yearning is quite potent.
     

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