I came across this forum as I looked to educate myself on evening wear and what to wear for my wedding. Thanks to the incredibly informative members of this forum I was able to piece together an understanding of a tuxedo and how to wear one well (hopefully). While my wife originally felt as if the idea of tuxedo was a little too boyish (while we were planning the wedding) she was extremely pleased with the result. From learning to tie the bow tie to resenting the size of my boutonnière. We got married on April 14th, 6 p.m. in Los Angeles. Thank you all!