MrG
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I was raised the same way, and I can tell you that, if someone presented me with an opportunity I liked, I wouldn't hesitate. In fact, one of my medium-term goal is to be self-employed. That doesn't mean I'm just going to take any opportunity that comes along, and it doesn't mean I'm just going to find some way to be an entrepreneur for the sake of it. My plan is to take a measured approach to a major risk, but I'm strongly driven to take that risk. The thing is, that's not what you're presenting here. You seem to be conflating risk aversion and responsibility, and they're two different things. Risk aversion is passing up an opportunity because you're not the type to trade the possibility of a big payoff for stability; responsibility is making sure you set yourself up as well as you possibly can before you take the risk. You're exhibiting more of the former than the latter here.
I think it warrants keeping in mind that there's nothing inherently wrong with risk aversion. You have to do what makes you happy.
I am not sure really. I have always been raised with the "don't be stupid and be responsible mentality". I guess risk aversion is a part of that. For example my father is very successful, business owner, works hard, took risks and he always says if he could do it all over he would have been a cop in a small town and have been retired a long time ago.
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I was raised the same way, and I can tell you that, if someone presented me with an opportunity I liked, I wouldn't hesitate. In fact, one of my medium-term goal is to be self-employed. That doesn't mean I'm just going to take any opportunity that comes along, and it doesn't mean I'm just going to find some way to be an entrepreneur for the sake of it. My plan is to take a measured approach to a major risk, but I'm strongly driven to take that risk. The thing is, that's not what you're presenting here. You seem to be conflating risk aversion and responsibility, and they're two different things. Risk aversion is passing up an opportunity because you're not the type to trade the possibility of a big payoff for stability; responsibility is making sure you set yourself up as well as you possibly can before you take the risk. You're exhibiting more of the former than the latter here.
I think it warrants keeping in mind that there's nothing inherently wrong with risk aversion. You have to do what makes you happy.