Sympathy cards or Christmas card

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  1. Style guy

    Style guy Well-Known Member

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    a few days ago one of my friend's mother passed away, and seeing how it is so close to X-mas makes it even worse. My question is I know know I should send a sympathy card, but what about a cristmas card as well? I figure a Christmas card may cheer him up a little bit especially if I get the right one. Is this a bad idea to send him a X-mas card or should I just send the sympathy card and leave it at that?
     


  2. Brian SD

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    Having been in their position recently, I can say that a heartfelt Christmas card is a much better gesture. I am not a fan of sympathy cards.. I think you have the right idea with just the Christmas one.
     


  3. Andrew V.

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    I'd send a Christmas card, and write a message conveying sympathy inside of course. I think that pre-fab sympathy (and thank-you) cards are a little tacky anyway - it's better to use blank cards and write your own message of thanks or sympathy.
     


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    Thanks for the replies. I will send a X-mas card shortly.
     


  5. Huntsman

    Huntsman Senior member

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    This is your friend's mother -- if you haven't been there, it can be a bad place. Send a letter. Regards, Huntsman
     


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    I concur fully.
     


  7. Andrew V.

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    A letter would work too but he could easily write a letter-long message in a card.
     


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