a woman with hips should look like this when her hips are cocked... see the difference? She is gonna be huge by the time she's 30 btw. By picking slim girls i'm also betting that they won't be really fat 10 yrs from now if i happen to marry one. Girls with big hips and big butts tend to quickly develop bigger hips and bigger butts. Eww. I remember reading somewhere that J.Lo works-out several hours a day to keep her form. Most women don't have that luxury and so they balloon.