That Tom Ford Black really slims you, if you like it I would go with that. Random question what are the lapel widths on Tom Ford suits? A lot of people here don't like black suits. But I don't like tuxes very much. I am having a black suit made for my wedding as well. I think it's the right choice if you want the tradition look, but still want to wear it on night outs, etc. Much more versatile than a black tuxedo.