Hi this is my first post and I have enjoyed reading for the past month. I don't feel the cotton tuxedo is traditional so I am fine wearing some brown boots I love plus it's an "upscale formal event". Should I wear the Ken Wang navy grenadine, or navy with white pin dots tie? Right now I'm leaning towards a white shirt but I haven't ruled out a light gray like the model is wearing. Was also thinking about adding the Ken Wang Red agate lace cuff links to compliment the color of the boots- what do you think? Thanks.