Biscione
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Don't. The problem is that if you turn up in something like that, regardless of how formal or informal people find it, it would appear to almost everybody there to be an outfit that had been thought-through, and one into which effort had been placed.
I may be alone here, but I think that wearing something like a stroller and appropriate striped trousers indicates that the person has cared about how good they look at an occasion where the only true interest is caring about respecting the deceased.
So, something sober that is neither sloppy nor precious strikes me as the best option. A dark suit with a white (or subdued) shirt and dark tie is best. I tend to avoid pocket squares as well, as that indicates that thought has been placed into details. I want to send the message of "I'm respectful, but not self-serving (ie. using mourning as an opportunity to dress well)".
I imagine now people will disagree with how affected a stroller is, but I maintain that in the 21st century it definately is.
I may be alone here, but I think that wearing something like a stroller and appropriate striped trousers indicates that the person has cared about how good they look at an occasion where the only true interest is caring about respecting the deceased.
So, something sober that is neither sloppy nor precious strikes me as the best option. A dark suit with a white (or subdued) shirt and dark tie is best. I tend to avoid pocket squares as well, as that indicates that thought has been placed into details. I want to send the message of "I'm respectful, but not self-serving (ie. using mourning as an opportunity to dress well)".
I imagine now people will disagree with how affected a stroller is, but I maintain that in the 21st century it definately is.