Straight-gay-love-confusion - An inquiry or opinion!

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  1. CDFS

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    Wow, you people have absolutely no idea how homosexuality works.

    OP, you're gay. There is nothing that you can do to change that; you were born a certain way, and that orientation is completely and utterly set-in-stone. You may love your girlfriend, but in the end, it simply cannot work out. You've lied to yourself for far too long already, and the further you get into this the more it's going to hurt her in the end when you finally do need to tell her (or worse, when she catches you in bed with a lover). If you truly love her, then you want what's best for her, and you know that it can no longer be you. Taking pills to get an erection and just trying to muscle through sex is nothing more than an elaborate lie.

    Once again, please don't blame yourself. It's not your fault. In fact, it's nobodies fault. I may not exactly know your position in not feeling sexually attracted to her -- I've had successful and passionate relationships with members of both sexes -- but I do know what it's like to deal with the fear of "coming out." I've sent you a PM in case you would like to talk further.

    Oh, and yeah, this was pretty much one of the worst places to ask your question. Styleforum is very, how you say, old fashioned, when it comes to this. But I wish you the best of luck in ending your relationship.
     


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    Wow, you people have absolutely no idea how homosexuality works.

    OP, you're gay. There is nothing that you can do to change that; you were born a certain way, and that orientation is completely and utterly set-in-stone. You may love your girlfriend, but in the end, it simply cannot work out. You've lied to yourself for far too long already, and the further you get into this the more it's going to hurt her in the end when you finally do need to tell her (or worse, when she catches you in bed with a lover). If you truly love her, then you want what's best for her, and you know that it can no longer be you. Taking pills to get an erection and just trying to muscle through sex is nothing more than an elaborate lie.

    Once again, please don't blame yourself. It's not your fault. In fact, it's nobodies fault. I may not exactly know your position in not feeling sexually attracted to her -- I've had successful and passionate relationships with members of both sexes -- but I do know what it's like to deal with the fear of "coming out." I've sent you a PM in case you would like to talk further.

    Oh, and yeah, this was pretty much one of the worst places to ask your question. Styleforum is very, how you say, old fashioned, when it comes to this. But I wish you the best of luck in ending your relationship.


    Would you like a dickture.
     


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    rach2jlc Prof. Fabulous Dubiously Honored

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    I've long found that there are few problems or situations in life, from the unnecessarily high tax rate (which should be cut, to stimulate growth), to homelessness, Rickett's, red tides, deforestation, the inability of Detroit to produce a decent sports team, hangovers, the deflation of the Euro, disputed border issues between Eritrea and Ethiopia, the depletion of the world's top soil, and (of course) questions about where one's aesthetic and sexual interests lie... that can't be resolved or alleviated with copious amounts of hot mansex. Edit: Also, this thread needs more of teh Ronallllldo. [​IMG]
     


  5. MetroStyles

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    Meh looks too much like a prissy porcupine to be my type.
     


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    rach2jlc Prof. Fabulous Dubiously Honored

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    Meh looks too much like a prissy porcupine to be my type.
    But look at his pretty purse. And his jeans are MOSCHINO! OMG!!eleventy. In any case, I can see you're made of tougher stuff. Time to go to next-level homosexualism: the diva scowl. Avert your eyes, boyz, in case of rapture, these pants may be unmanned! [​IMG]
     


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    Would you like a dickture.

    Classy. But no, I'm engaged. To a woman, no less.
     


  8. MetroStyles

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    But look at his pretty purse. And his jeans are MOSCHINO! OMG!!eleventy.

    In any case, I can see you're made of tougher stuff. Time to go to next-level homosexualism: the diva scowl. Avert your eyes, boyz, in case of rapture, these pants may be unmanned!

    [​IMG]


    Would rather hit Bex.

    Classy. But no, I'm engaged. To a woman, no less.

    But you just said above you are gay.
     


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    rach2jlc Prof. Fabulous Dubiously Honored

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    ^Amazing how you find the time to send dicktures to random anonymous men on the interwebz, but putting in the content and publishing the next issue of The Homosexualist proves to be too burdensome.

    Consider yourself scowled.
     


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    ^Amazing how you find the time to send dicktures to random anonymous men on the interwebz, but putting in the content and publishing the next issue of The Homosexualist proves to be too burdensome.

    Consider yourself scowled.


    I'm just building anticipation, that's all. Besides, dicktures don't require any creativity. They are cheap and mass-produced.
     


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    rach2jlc Prof. Fabulous Dubiously Honored

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    Besides, dicktures don't require any creativity. They are cheap and mass-produced.

    I imagine rather something quite like a Trabant.

    [​IMG]
     


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    But you just said above you are gay.

    -- I've had successful and passionate relationships with members of both sexes --

    Not gay.
     


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    i think we need a poal about whose sock puppet the OP is
     


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    I've long found that there are few problems or situations in life, from the unnecessarily high tax rate (which should be cut, to stimulate growth), to homelessness, Rickett's, red tides, deforestation, the inability of Detroit to produce a decent sports team, hangovers, the deflation of the Euro, disputed border issues between Eritrea and Ethiopia, the depletion of the world's top soil, and (of course) questions about where one's aesthetic and sexual interests lie... that can't be resolved or alleviated with copious amounts of hot mansex.
    You forgot earthquake. By the way, I had a dream about you last night. You didn't look like yourself, but the omniscience of the dream agent was revealing enough. You were naked at some point, comfortable in your nudity and divested of any sexuality. You stood still in a pose while Housman and Tennyson argued over which position would best be represented in marble. Housman became impatient, tapping his foot and crossing his arms while Tennyson's bushy beard bounced off his collar with each iamb as he detailed his opinions in verse. Then there was something about how you became a member of the House of Lords despite not inheriting a seat, but I don't remember where to or from that thought flowed before it broke, broke, broke on the cold gray stones. [​IMG]
     


  15. MetroStyles

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    You forgot earthquake.

    By the way, I had a dream about you last night. You didn't look like yourself, but the omniscience of the dream agent was revealing enough. You were naked at some point, comfortable in your nudity and divested of any sexuality. You stood still in a pose while Housman and Tennyson argued over which position would best be represented in marble. Housman became impatient, tapping his foot and crossing his arms while Tennyson's bushy beard bounced off his collar with each iamb as he detailed his opinions in verse.

    Then there was something about how you became a member of the House of Lords despite not inheriting a seat, but I don't remember where to or from that thought flowed before it broke, broke, broke on the cold gray stones.

    [​IMG]


    Would be an excellent sitcom.
     


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