Some dude grabbed my wife's ass

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by distinctive, Oct 13, 2008.



  1. aleeboy

    aleeboy Senior member

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    Like many other people believe, in this day and age, you never know who is carrying what. And even worse, how crazy they are? If you love your wife... I'm sure you do.... think which will be better for her: bailing you out of gaol, going with you to hospital or watching you savage another person. All these are possible. I would say walking away from a situation before it gets worse is better. I would only resort to violence if I had to, not to prove anything.

    Hmmmm... when I think about it... I'm a pussy[​IMG]
     


  2. j

    j (stands for Jerk) Admin

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    lulwut? I hope you're not saying that defending your wife is a bad thing because it might involve testosterone. We all know how "bad" testosterone is. But before I read into your comment further, what was it that I said that you are taking issue with specifically?
    Heh. I was talking about your sweet testosterone-soaked video. yeah, when you randomly flail and smack someone, you should get your, and your buddy's ass punched into the hospital. That's the world I want to live in. Dudes walking around thinking about how much the internet matters, just waiting to prove their manliness and how they totally aren't internet dandies or whatever.
     


  3. Etienne

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    Nicely done. I think you should be proud, you did the right thing.
    I'll just take this occasion to say that I agree with everything gdl203 said in this thread.

    The guy was a douche. But in the end it is the OP that escalated a "verbal agression" situation into a physical assault and that is never justified.

    The OP absolutely did the right thing. He gave the guy a chance to apologize and could have left it at that.
    He also started a fight. He started the physical assault and I don't see this as a good thing, but that probably means I still have to work to get my ITG credentials.
     


  4. Homme

    Homme Senior member

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    you never know who is carrying a knife, and someone with a knife can kill you in an instant. avoid conflict with strangers as much as possible.


    +1. What happens when you are killed, and your wife remarries? 'Some dude' will be grabbing her ass all night long.
     


  5. TyCooN

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    Heh. I was talking about your sweet testosterone-soaked video. yeah, when you randomly flail and smack someone, you should get your, and your buddy's ass punched into the hospital. That's the world I want to live in. Dudes walking around thinking about how much the internet matters, just waiting to prove their manliness and how they totally aren't internet dandies or whatever.
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  6. distinctive

    distinctive Senior member

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    +1. What happens when you are killed, and your wife remarries? 'Some dude' will be grabbing her ass all night long.

    Come on dude, that's an awful and ridiculous thing to say.


    I think a lot of my reaction is because of my environment and my age. I would think that in the south, fights are a little more common and guns and knives are a little less common than say, a big city. I know that's a broad generalization and anyone could carry a weapon but for the most part it's probably true. A lot of you older gentleman are probably more likely to stay away from places like this as well as situations like this. I'm fairly young and I do enjoy going out on occasion and this was a fairly classy pub (I was drinking a Duvel and smoking a Romeo and Juliet at the time). I really think you would have to put yourself in my shoes (if you have a wife) and consider your reaction.
     


  7. scarphe

    scarphe Senior member

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    Come on dude, that's an awful and ridiculous thing to say.


    I think a lot of my reaction is because of my environment and my age. I would think that in the south, fights are a little more common and guns and knives are a little less common than say, a big city. I know that's a broad generalization and anyone could carry a weapon but for the most part it's probably true. A lot of you older gentleman are probably more likely to stay away from places like this as well as situations like this. I'm fairly young and I do enjoy going out on occasion and this was a fairly classy pub (I was drinking a Duvel and smoking a Romeo and Juliet at the time). I really think you would have to put yourself in my shoes (if you have a wife) and consider your reaction.


    i know i am repeating what alot of people have already said but physiacl violence can escalate very quickly particurly in bar/restaurnant a palce where if the person is not carrying weapon one can easliy be found. and when both parites have consumed alchohol lack of self control could be a valid issue on account of both parties. so the comment you may consider out of bounds but it is very true.
     


  8. Schnurretiger

    Schnurretiger Senior member

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    Call the cops, have him put in jail, make sure he gets sentenced to at least 6 months and write him a postcard every week saying: "Come on, you like getting your ass grabbed!"
     


  9. johnapril

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    In Pakistan his wife would be home cooking dinner not hanging out in the bar drinking after the game.

    K


    No, you dumbshit. I'm not talking about a Pakistani wife.
     


  10. Flambeur

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    If all goes as planned I won't even bother with getting married.

    So if someone grabbed your moms or sisters ass, you'd be like "it's cool mom, he's just being a guy"

    pussy is just pussy, right?
     


  11. Flambeur

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    P.S. I absolutely agree with the original poster, would do the same thing, etc. However sometimes the situation requires a smarter, indirect approach.
     


  12. VKK3450

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    No, you dumbshit. I'm not talking about a Pakistani wife.

    When in Rome, do as the Roman's do

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  13. Gravitas

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    VKK, that response was less directed at you than it seemed. I'm just saying that America as a whole doesn't seem to really care much about respect and all the "blame the victim" nonsense needs to stop.
    And by punish I don't mean that he necessarily needs to do it himself, I am quite fine with the cops or management dealing with the problem.
     


  14. ratboycom

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    Funny, this came up recently when I was talking with my woman. I get a bit tense when I hear about the nastyness that can be pervy old Japanese guys/Salary men (you know, the types you see rolling out of some nondescript kiddy porn shop in a crevace of Akiba). If one were to ever touch my girl when I was around, he would be lucky to be alive after I am done with him. I basically told her that I would break the guy's nose and or curb stomp him on a train platform.
     


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