How do I tell? I've only seen her 2 days this week and will see her tomorrow. Our school works on an A day/B day schedule and I only have the same lunch as her on A day. Damn school board. BTW, I appreciate all the good help that has come out of this thread. Thanks again, some of you guys are very helpful. JB JB, these aren't questions that you need to ask, these are things that you just feel and do. Again, it goes back to that whole "embedded in your DNA" thing. Watch the movie "40 Year Old Virgin". There is a scene at a bar where the protaganist is essentially asking the same questions you are. The "player" responds: "How does a Lion know to hunt and kill a gazelle?". It just does. It's a part of you. When you see a hot girl you like, your hormones should be at work. You should have a "need" to want to touch her, kiss her etc. At your age, girls should have a healthy fear of your penis. They should feel that it is always hiding in the bushes, waiting to strike when they let their guard down. If they see you, and by extension "it", as harmless, it's game over.