So people think I'm gay

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by JetBlast, May 14, 2007.

  1. edmorel

    edmorel Quality Seller!! Dubiously Honored

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    How do I tell? I've only seen her 2 days this week and will see her tomorrow. Our school works on an A day/B day schedule and I only have the same lunch as her on A day. Damn school board.

    BTW, I appreciate all the good help that has come out of this thread. Thanks again, some of you guys are very helpful.

    JB


    JB, these aren't questions that you need to ask, these are things that you just feel and do. Again, it goes back to that whole "embedded in your DNA" thing. Watch the movie "40 Year Old Virgin". There is a scene at a bar where the protaganist is essentially asking the same questions you are. The "player" responds: "How does a Lion know to hunt and kill a gazelle?". It just does. It's a part of you. When you see a hot girl you like, your hormones should be at work. You should have a "need" to want to touch her, kiss her etc.

    At your age, girls should have a healthy fear of your penis. They should feel that it is always hiding in the bushes, waiting to strike when they let their guard down. If they see you, and by extension "it", as harmless, it's game over.
     


  2. SuitingStyle

    SuitingStyle Senior member

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    JB, these aren't questions that you need to ask, these are things that you just feel and do. Again, it goes back to that whole "embedded in your DNA" thing. Watch the movie "40 Year Old Virgin". There is a scene at a bar where the protaganist is essentially asking the same questions you are. The "player" responds: "How does a Lion know to hunt and kill a gazelle?". It just does. It's a part of you. When you see a hot girl you like, your hormones should be at work. You should have a "need" to want to touch her, kiss her etc.

    At your age, girls should have a healthy fear of your penis. They should feel that it is always hiding in the bushes, waiting to strike when they let their guard down. If they see you, and by extension "it", as harmless, it's game over.



    [​IMG] [​IMG] you are a funny cat Ed, a funny cat .........

    I never wanted girls to fear mine, just wanted them to please it
     


  3. JetBlast

    JetBlast Senior member

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    Good points. I've read through the Don Juan Bible as well, just wanted to see if anyone had anything to bring to the table [​IMG]

    I'm fairly skilled in massage, I'll see if they are interested in that. Maybe I'll give them a freebie [​IMG]

    JB
     


  4. itsstillmatt

    itsstillmatt The Liberator Dubiously Honored

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    Good points. I've read through the Don Juan Bible as well, just wanted to see if anyone had anything to bring to the table [​IMG] I'm fairly skilled in massage, I'll see if they are interested in that. Maybe I'll give them a freebie [​IMG] JB
    Dude, no offense but has anybody even heard of a straight masseur? http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&c...asseur&spell=1
     


  5. edmorel

    edmorel Quality Seller!! Dubiously Honored

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  6. Alter

    Alter Senior member

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    Good points. I've read through the Don Juan Bible as well, just wanted to see if anyone had anything to bring to the table [​IMG] I'm fairly skilled in massage, I'll see if they are interested in that. Maybe I'll give them a freebie [​IMG] JB
    No freebies allowed. If you have a conversation like this: JB: Do you like massages? Hotbabe: Of course. JB: Would you like me to give you one? Hotbabe: Hmmm, well...yea...I guess so.... then you are destined for a night alone practicing your gripping technique. She will take the massage...say..."that tickles" and then ask you to stop. Game over. The conversation should sound like this: JB: Do you like massages? Hotbabe: Of course. JB: Why do you like them? Hotbabe: They feel good, I guess. JB: You know, you really should give me one. Hotbabe: What? JB: No. really. And if you are really good, and I mean really good, than I just may give you something in return. Hotbabe: Something? What is something? JB: I'll decide that depending on how good your massage is. Then she'll look at you to see if you are full of shit or are really a man. Hold her eye contact. Don't flinch. Let her be the first one to break eye contact. Victory will be yours. And if you actually do give her a massage then we are sending Ed and Matt over to your house to beat you silly. Yea, I know it sounds like the script to a bad 70's porno. But it works.
     


  7. lakewolf

    lakewolf Senior member

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    good to read it Alter.... I see some of you really get it !
     


  8. Thomas

    Thomas Senior member

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    12 pages, and I'm clogging it up more...

    OP - Why do you not mention a wingman? An Accomplice? Someone who gets you into the herd instead of picking off the wandering strays??? Maybe you wing for another, and get in that way. Right now, you have no one to vouch for you being a) not psychotic, and b) straight.

    And - if women are speaking to you and being friendly - why not a wing-chick? It's not written in stone that wingmen must be male. If a hot chick is being friendly and you bring up that you're interested in one of her friends - watch her reaction. If she's put off - then she might want you for her own. Or she thought you were gay.
    See where it goes. Nothing to lose, anyway.

    If she's keen on the idea - well, ride it for what it's worth. And, for God's sake - play the game, like Alter described. Never be too eager. Nothing worse than a gambler laying his cards out for everyone to see.
     


  9. Buickguy

    Buickguy Senior member

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    The individual pickup techniques that have been shared with you may work. Then again, they may not. I had a style when I was young that served me well. When I was in high school girls categorized themselves very neatly and they all stayed pretty much in their own circles. Keep in mind that every style will get a different type of woman. I found the type I liked and refined my style for that. It worked about 98% of the time on the type of girl I wanted. It was a dead flop on other types but then again for me to find one of the other types attractive was few and far between.

    The key is to be relaxed with you. You are not experiencing anything different than any other male has sine the model first came out. Like moving in a suit, it must be natural. Converse, socialize, and be ready to seize the opportunity when it presents itself.
     


  10. ratboycom

    ratboycom Senior member

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    I always saw masages as a good way to get a girl naked...
     


  11. Sabrosa

    Sabrosa Senior member

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    A massage is a good tool to use once you have already made a move on a girl (you are kissing, making out, she's naked, etc); it's much less effective when used as a method to pick up a girl to begin with.
     


  12. Edward Appleby

    Edward Appleby Senior member

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    Watch the movie "40 Year Old Virgin". There is a scene at a bar where the protaganist is essentially asking the same questions you are. The "player" responds: "How does a Lion know to hunt and kill a gazelle?". It just does. It's a part of you. When you see a hot girl you like, your hormones should be at work. You should have a "need" to want to touch her, kiss her etc.

    Exactly. Ed, why did it take us this long to come up with this?

    JB, just watch 40 Year Old Virgin. It pretty much has all the advice that's been given encapsulated in 100 some-odd minutes.
     


  13. Edward Appleby

    Edward Appleby Senior member

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    A massage is a good tool to use once you have already made a move on a girl (you are kissing, making out, she's naked, etc); it's much less effective when used as a method to pick up a girl to begin with.

    Disagree man. A massage is also a good tool early in the game when you've just started talking to a girl and you want to establish a physical connection.
     


  14. Manny Calavera

    Manny Calavera Senior member

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    Good points. I've read through the Don Juan Bible as well, just wanted to see if anyone had anything to bring to the table [​IMG]

    I'm fairly skilled in massage, I'll see if they are interested in that. Maybe I'll give them a freebie [​IMG]

    JB


    Seriously. This post. [​IMG]

    You need to settle down and just be yourself. You seem kind of (read: extremely) awkward.
     


  15. CTGuy

    CTGuy Made Guy

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    The first sport you thought to use as an example was lacrosse?

    CTGuy, don't look now, but I think you might be gay.... [​IMG]


    Sorry- I went to a private prep school. I imagine it is probably different for people in large public high schools. Also this kid is in Maryland where lacrosse is a pretty big deal.
     


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