Waldo Jeffers
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No, I would not consider an 18-year-old to be a man or a woman yet. I'm around such people on a regular basis and consider them somewhere between a child and a full-grown adult. Just because an 18-year-old wants to ******** with a 35-year-old, I would not consider it wise or right for that 35-year-old to engage. Because they should know better.
I don't think I was a fully developed person at 18 years of age. I think I was still very much learning to find my way through the world and make proper decisions. I can't give you a defining line of when someone became a man or a woman. I can only say that, I think people who are in their 30s should date people closer to their age.
I agree with you generally. At the same time, if an 18 yr decides she wants to sleep with a 35 yr old, that is her choice to make. Maybe with hindsight she will think that was a bad choice but that is life. I don’t think it’s cool to manipulate people, and I agree that if I had a friend who was hitting on teenagers I would think him sleazy. But different people have different lifestyles. I’m not down with a lot of things people do, but it’s not up to me to police them