Significant other annoyed at your layers and accessories?

[patrickBOOTH]

I am curious to know other's experiences.

Sometimes my special lady friend and I will return to my place after a night out, drinks, whatever, and we are becoming, shall we say, intimate. She would always get so get annoyed with me that I ruin the mood because I have a coat, jacket, tie, cufflinks, shoe trees and all of this stuff to take off and put proper and such. At this point she knows me well enough and thinks its "cute", but have any of you irritated your significant other because you need to put your shoe trees in and unbutton your cufflinks take off your tie, etc?

 

[EvilFish]

I think you seriously need to reevaluate your life if you're stopping to put shoe trees in your shoes in these situations.

My girlfriend has gotten annoyed with my cufflinks a few times though; I sometimes find them incredibly finnicky to remove and I can't my my hand through the cuff with them in.

 

[DerekS]

yep. in the heat of the moment, cufflinks can be a ***** to get off....and i turn into a total prick when a girl tries to take off my tie or uses it to pull me toward her...they may think its sexy but it pisses me the **** off. In the back of my mind im wondering where all of my clothes are and hoping nothing was placed somewhere that it may get dirty.

but after penetration all of this goes away.

 

[Don Carlos]

Originally Posted by EvilFish

I think you seriously need to reevaluate your life if you're stopping to put shoe trees in your shoes in these situations.

+50,000

Also, if you're doing it correctly, you shouldn't even be the one removing your clothes.

 

[Harold falcon]

You need to work it into your foreplay routine. Put on some Marvin Gaye and do a sexy little dance as you take off your clothes piece by piece. The anticipation that will be building inside of her will do half the job for you.

 

[in stitches]

Originally Posted by DerekS

yep. in the heat of the moment, cufflinks can be a ***** to get off....and i turn into a total prick when a girl tries to take off my tie or uses it to pull me toward her...they may think its sexy but it pisses me the **** off. In the back of my mind im wondering where all of my clothes are and hoping nothing was placed somewhere that it may get dirty.

but after penetration all of this goes away.

i think pulling on someones tie is a capital offense in some countries

 

[patrickBOOTH]

Originally Posted by EvilFish

I think you seriously need to reevaluate your life if you're stopping to put shoe trees in your shoes in these situations.


I think you should be banned from this forvm, you're obviously not up to its standards.

Originally Posted by DerekS

yep. in the heat of the moment, cufflinks can be a ***** to get off....and i turn into a total prick when a girl tries to take off my tie or uses it to pull me toward her...they may think its sexy but it pisses me the **** off. In the back of my mind im wondering where all of my clothes are and hoping nothing was placed somewhere that it may get dirty.

but after penetration all of this goes away.

+100 Thinking its sexy to pull on my six folds. Those F***ers are cut on the bias and stretch. I should have Sam Hober send her a bill for a new one.

 

[patrickBOOTH]

Originally Posted by Don Carlos

+50,000

Also, if you're doing it correctly, you shouldn't even be the one removing your clothes.

You mean I should trust a woman to handle my clothes properly? I don't think so. If you want something done right you do it yourself...

On that thought I should just use my hand...

 

[Raoul Duke]

Seriously? Just rip that **** off. Regarding the shoes, I like to wait a bit before I put my trees in anyways.

 

[chasingred]

You think that's a problem. I insist on putting in my shoe trees, gently rolling up my tie, putting my coat on a large hanger with moulded shoulders, folding my pants before hanging them so the crease doesn't get ruined, and then putting my knit in a cedar lined drawer just in case there are critters out.

 

[patrickBOOTH]

Originally Posted by chasingred

You think that's a problem. I insist on putting in my shoe trees, gently rolling up my tie, putting my coat on a large hanger with moulded shoulders, folding my pants before hanging them so the crease doesn't get ruined, and then putting my knit in a cedar lined drawer just in case there are critters out.

I'm glad we are on the same page.

 

[CrazyJ]

I won't let my girl wear my nice shirts after sex. I tell her to take it off and put a crappy one on since I don't want stink and sweat all up in my james perse. She gets kinda mad about this.

 

[NORE]

If you roll up your socks, seek help.

 

[patrickBOOTH]

I leave my socks on. Always.

 

[Threadbearer]

Seems to me that if you spend too much time on your clothes at that particular moment, you're sending your lady a clear signal that you value your material possessions more than the act you are about to perform. It also implies that you take her for granted, in that you're willing to risk losing the mood merely to prevent wrinkled fabrics.

Don't get me wrong. I share your desire to hang my clothes properly the moment I take them off. But in certain circumstances, I fight that urge.