I have a place in San Francisco with my girlfriend that we own. It is pretty nice and of course expensive. But over the years I saved up a lot of money in order to afford something like it. I did not come from a wealthy family nor did or do I have a trust fund but through some sleeve rolling and years been able to get it. Anyways, I was wondering if its a good idea to invite my boss or bosses over to my place? I know some discussions were placed that you don't want your bosses to get the assumption they are paying you too much. I certainly wouldn't want them to get that thought especially if I want a raise. However, it would be nice to have a genuine relationship outside of work - which I think we do sometimes.