Sexual Starvation

[shademore]

Originally Posted by Pantisocrat

Just 20 years ago, you never thought you'd last this long weren't you?

Imagine what wonderful miracle drugs await my generation.

I can only hope to continue my steadfastness in the manner of Moses and Doc Paskowitz. True heros of the cause. I leave you with the words of the immortal Alan Arkin "... I'm telling you young man take my advice, **** a lot of women. A Lot of women..."

 

[Tokyo Slim]

Eight or nine years or so.
Going on two years next week.

But I'm not normal.

 

[Matt]

about 2 yrs between girl number 1 and girl number 2 in my teen years. Since then, I don't know...few months I guess.

People who count this in days are either whore mongering or lying...even if they are married now...pre matrimonial single life you guys really expect us to believe you were getting laid each and every week for your entire lives?

Yahuh...

 

[Dedalus]

Originally Posted by KPO89

I don't see the foolishness in exercising the trait which allows you to get up for work, study for class, exercise for health, and perform better in sex. No truly great man has ever reached his greatness without some element of self-control.

Lifting weights has no purpose other than to exercise a muscle. How is self-control any different?

Lifting weights makes you stronger and more appealing to many women and it's good for your longevity. Why wouldn't you just exercise self-control where you would see real benefits?

 

[shademore]

Originally Posted by Matt

about 2 yrs between girl number 1 and girl number 2 in my teen years. Since then, I don't know...few months I guess.

People who count this in days are either whore mongering or lying...even if they are married now...pre matrimonial single life you guys really expect us to believe you were getting laid each and every week for your entire lives?

Yahuh...

Every week?!? I admit I have fallen off the pace a bit as I approach 50 and had to be satisfied with 4-5 times a weeks, but in my prime...
As for the whore mongering, never paid for it even once in 30+ years. I will tell you one thing though I feel sorry for you poor bastards over there. As for me, I am staying out of Korea.
American girls put out... Oh yeah.

 

[RSS]

Originally Posted by KPO89

Whats the longest you have "voluntarily" gone without sex?
Never. I execise self control in more meaningful ways.

 

[KPO89]

Originally Posted by Dedalus

Lifting weights makes you stronger and more appealing to many women and it's good for your longevity. Why wouldn't you just exercise self-control where you would see real benefits?
There is a spiritual side of this as well... I just don't see the point of so much sex...I mean my gf has been the most pleasing girl I've ever been with and I've had the best sex ever but why do you think so many people get tired of their partner? Because they do it until their dick is so sick of her ******. Nothing a little temperance couldn't shape up. I understand this is styleforum and we pride ourselves on materialism but at some point you've got to say "no" to something or your entire life is wasted very quickly. The deeper we all get in material and social ****, we get less out of the smaller things in life. That includes sex. Like someone already mentioned in this thread. Quality is not quantity. Edit: to answer your question more specifically I do exercise daily and deny myself certain foods that I may want but that has no where near the impact on one's self-control as denying yourself the pleasures of the flesh.

 

[RSS]

Originally Posted by KPO89

[W]hy do you think so many people get tired of their partner? Because they do it until their dick is so sick of her ******.
I feel sorry for you. I feel even more so for your partner.

Originally Posted by KPO89

There is a spiritual side of this as well....
Given the first comment above ... this may be a very misguided spirituality.

 

[insomb]

I agree with KPO89

 

[KPO89]

Originally Posted by RSS

I feel sorry for you. I feel even more so for your partner.

Given the first comment above ... this may be a very misguided spirituality.

I appreciate your feelings for me and my partner but I can assure you I'm very happy. I can't speak for her which I'm sure somebody is gonna rag on but I'm sure if you asked her she would feel mutual.

As far as the spiritual aspect. At least I'm trying which is more than most can say. As a Christian I'll admit I'm not the best...which just means I need the principal of Christianity more than most.

 

[KPO89]

Originally Posted by insomb

I agree with KPO89

I appreciate the vote of support

 

[Nouveau Pauvre]

Originally Posted by KPO89

I appreciate your feelings for me and my partner but I can assure you I'm very happy. I can't speak for her which I'm sure somebody is gonna rag on but I'm sure if you asked her she would feel mutual.

As far as the spiritual aspect. At least I'm trying which is more than most can say. As a Christian I'll admit I'm not the best...which just means I need the principal of Christianity more than most.

 

[RSS]

Do you see spirituality and sexuality as being opposed to one another? Personally I've never understood those who separate sexuality from spirituality as if they are two independent and unrelated realms. I suppose they can be approached that way ... but such an approach adds a complexity that needn't be present.

I once knew an evangelical Christian who kept three journals ... one spiritual, one sexual, and one for every day activities (financial, political, hobbies, etc.). For some reason he was unwilling or unable to keep just one journal ... because in him mind each tainted the other.

 

[willpower]

Interesting you used the word "starvation".


And please don't be a Christian. Nothing good has ever come out of it.

 

[Harold falcon]

Hey, some people like to ******** with men, some people like to ******** with animals, some people don't want to ******** at all. That's your prerogative.

But don't pretend not ********** makes you a better person. It doesn't. Feeding the poor, helping little old ladies, being well read, teaching children to ride a bike, learning a new language, those things make you a better person. Intentionally depriving yourself of joy is an accomplishment only a spoiled asshole would brag about.