Sexual Endurance

Discussion in 'Health & Body' started by SC Widders, Apr 10, 2010.

  1. BubblyMasquerade

    BubblyMasquerade Senior member

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    previous gf would come multiple times in 10-15 minutes. Current takes 20+, now I have to plan ahead and make sure there's time [​IMG]
    20+ is kinda weak broham.
     


  2. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    previous gf would come multiple times in 10-15 minutes.
    This. It's awesome. If I am tired, I can blow my load and not feel bad. If I want to keep going, it's all good. Gotta love that.
     


  3. Sesame Seed

    Sesame Seed Senior member

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    Put some coke on your knob.
     


  4. db_ggmm

    db_ggmm Senior member

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    This. It's awesome. If I am tired, I can blow my load and not feel bad. If I want to keep going, it's all good. Gotta love that.

    In my experience, a hyper orgasmic women is not all that great. They get over loaded.
     


  5. Slopho

    Slopho Senior member

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    I think the key is to get her there first, try going down on her until she's about to or does finish. Then getting you off is basically a formality.
     


  6. HgaleK

    HgaleK Senior member

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    previous gf would come multiple times in 10-15 minutes. Current takes 20+, now I have to plan ahead and make sure there's time [​IMG]

    I had the exact same problem transitioning from the previous gf to this one. A vibrator works wonders if you don't have a lot of time.
     


  7. SC Widders

    SC Widders Well-Known Member

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    well i'm not sure if you're talking about just prolonging ejaculation or about physical endurance, but if you're talking about physical health, generally i'd say that pectoral (chest) muscles, more than anything else, allow you to fuck for long periods of time

    if you're talking about just prolonging ejaculation i don't know. a lot of women do these things called "kegel exercises", and i've heard there are similar techniques for men which can allow you to have double-orgasms and whatnot but i've never really cared enough to find out


    Haha, prolonging ejaculation during sex! I don't want to ejaculate and then wait 10-15 minutes to get back into the swing of doing the do!

    The classics:
    Get drunk
    Switch positions
    think about baseball
    beat off prior to sex

    To a lesser extent, some people will just learn to be more disciplined and less excitable (IMO, this is regrettable), as they have more sex.


    Beer is hard to access unless at parties (which this is my gf, not a random partner), plus its starting to get expensive for me [​IMG]


    Hell while you are at it take some typical antipsychotics.

    Or buy "worst"/thicker condoms.


    Maybe because I haven't been using condoms is why I'm in search for a resolution to this issue. We're definently getting some now because with the current streak, we'll be fucked [​IMG]
     


  8. milosz

    milosz Senior member

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    Search "male kegels." They'll allow you more control over when you ejaculate. Increased frequency, as others have noted could also increase duration.

    For the most part it's psychological, though. The average straight through sex act lasts seven to ten minutes, IIRC. Less if you're young and inexperienced. Aside from women who orgasm easily, foreplay serves a need, getting her closer to orgasm (and some/most can't orgasm from penetration at all) to increase the likelihood of simultaneous orgasms (or her having one at all). Learn to eat pussy like a champ and enjoy doing it.

    I've read that masturbation may tend to breed quick shooters - teenage boys learn to climax quickly so they don't get noticed
     


  9. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    Aside from women who orgasm easily, foreplay serves a need, getting her closer to orgasm (and some/most can't orgasm from penetration at all) to increase the likelihood of simultaneous orgasms (or her having one at all). Learn to eat pussy like a champ and enjoy doing it.

    And to quote the great Edmorel (RIP), don't be afraid to eat some of that 'sgetti either.
     


  10. mr monty

    mr monty Senior member

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    Aside from women who orgasm easily, foreplay serves a need, getting her closer to orgasm (and some/most can't orgasm from penetration at all) to increase the likelihood of simultaneous orgasms (or her having one at all). Learn to eat pussy like a champ and enjoy doing it.

    I see you have been eavesdropping on lesbians [​IMG]
     


  11. oneeightyseven

    oneeightyseven Almost Special

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    are you physically fit? I heard that actually plays a significant role in sexual endurance and appetite
     


  12. SC Widders

    SC Widders Well-Known Member

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    Search "male kegels." They'll allow you more control over when you ejaculate. Increased frequency, as others have noted could also increase duration.

    For the most part it's psychological, though. The average straight through sex act lasts seven to ten minutes, IIRC. Less if you're young and inexperienced. Aside from women who orgasm easily, foreplay serves a need, getting her closer to orgasm (and some/most can't orgasm from penetration at all) to increase the likelihood of simultaneous orgasms (or her having one at all). Learn to eat pussy like a champ and enjoy doing it.

    I've read that masturbation may tend to breed quick shooters - teenage boys learn to climax quickly so they don't get noticed


    Sounds like some solid information lol. I'll look that up. Foreplay is a definent role, but my inexperiance yields my time in the ring if you get my drift! And yeah, I go down on her and its enjoyable, so there are no downfalls whatsoever with that haha.

    And to quote the great Edmorel (RIP), don't be afraid to eat some of that 'sgetti either.

    LMAO

    are you physically fit? I heard that actually plays a significant role in sexual endurance and appetite

    I've heard the same and I am physically fit so that could be whats giving me an advantage for my level of experiance.
     


  13. Davidko19

    Davidko19 Senior member

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    why do you care to last longer?

    the faster you get your rocks off the faster you can light up a smoke and the faster the turkey sammich will come to you. Be Alpha.
     


  14. db_ggmm

    db_ggmm Senior member

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    I've read some info that definitely claims the whole male kegel, tugging, and whatnot is mostly bunk or only works for a small number of guys. There are minor health benefits to strengthening the muscles that a kegel hits, so it's not for naught, and I think I have read that it can intensify orgasms (or was that for women? don't remember).

    What really works is simply taking yourself close and then calming down. Do that three times and you will gain a lot more control.

    It's not as well known, but most guys also have a timer. At the end of it, you will have a largely unsatisfying end, but an end that you don't really control. It's about 15 minutes. You can reset your timer by losing rigidity.
     


  15. Klipsch

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    www.pegym.com All about excercising your little man, includes everything from girth excercises to Kegel; and for the record I have not tried it.
     


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