globetrotter
Stylish Dinosaur
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MFing mother in law, may she rot in hell for ever and ever, just told my wife that my wife's father had "tried" to have my MIL's parents killed (apperently, he had found somebody willling to do it, but couldn't come up with the money). my wife never met her father - he married my mother in law, and left her before my wife was born. MIL' parents pretty much bought this guy to marry thier daughter, as nobody else would. or at least this is the story that I have heard. I would believe it, I can't imagine that it would be possible to have enough money to pay some body to marry my MIL. in any event, my wife knew that, and she knew that her father had killed himself, years later.
now, after I had a big argument with my MIL yesterday, while I was at work today my MIL told my wife that my wife's father had tried to kill MIls parents - I cna't help but assume that this was in the context of "men are so bad, even though you trust them, they turn around and try to kill your parents" type of thing.
now my wife has basically spent the day in bed and is emotionally devestated over this.
anyway - I have a problem
1. I don't see what the problem is, honestly.
a. I don't believe most of what MIL says
b. he didn't actually have them killed
c. they were really not nice people, anyway
d. most of my friends have killed people, what's the big deal?
2. I don't know what I am supposed to do for my wife about this? saying "well, that is an interesting factoid but it has no relevance to our lives" didn't cut it.
3. I am sure that MIL sprung this little bit of information as a reaction to our fight yesterday (we were at a fair with my son, she dissapeared with my son for 15 minutes without saying where they were going, when they came back, I told him that he wasn't to go anywhere with her, without my wife and I's permission, she tried to argue with me about it, I told her not to interupt, she took off and made her way home by herself, driving us crazy looking for her)
anyway - seriously if you don't live in your parents basement, and you think that you have somethign relevant to advise me her, shoot - I am at a loss.
now, after I had a big argument with my MIL yesterday, while I was at work today my MIL told my wife that my wife's father had tried to kill MIls parents - I cna't help but assume that this was in the context of "men are so bad, even though you trust them, they turn around and try to kill your parents" type of thing.
now my wife has basically spent the day in bed and is emotionally devestated over this.
anyway - I have a problem
1. I don't see what the problem is, honestly.
a. I don't believe most of what MIL says
b. he didn't actually have them killed
c. they were really not nice people, anyway
d. most of my friends have killed people, what's the big deal?
2. I don't know what I am supposed to do for my wife about this? saying "well, that is an interesting factoid but it has no relevance to our lives" didn't cut it.
3. I am sure that MIL sprung this little bit of information as a reaction to our fight yesterday (we were at a fair with my son, she dissapeared with my son for 15 minutes without saying where they were going, when they came back, I told him that he wasn't to go anywhere with her, without my wife and I's permission, she tried to argue with me about it, I told her not to interupt, she took off and made her way home by herself, driving us crazy looking for her)
anyway - seriously if you don't live in your parents basement, and you think that you have somethign relevant to advise me her, shoot - I am at a loss.